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Harsh Tones and unpleasant words

2012-01-26T11:48:00.003-05:00

I have been battling about this post. It has been on my heart for a while now but I have tried to avoid it, knowing that it would most likely upset someone I love very much, but God put it on my heart and by avoiding it, it has gotten heavier and more and more consumes my thoughts. I have been praying mainly asking for God to give me something else to blog about but this still remained. I have finally come to terms with this and so I’m obeying God and blogging about it.

Changing how I engage with my friends and family has been a challenge for me. I grew up in a family that was demeaning and degrading in their speech. Even though it was not intended to harm, it was an everyday thing. Second nature if you will, I don’t believe they realized what they were saying. Name calling was a part of the daily language just as hello and goodbye are. To be put down and called names in a joking manner was normal.

I don’t believe they realized how damaging it truly was and still is. To poke fun of another person about things they have no control over, such as body parts, a walk, size, etc., is horribly demeaning to the one on the receiving end of the jokes. What seems funny to one when it has to do with body issues is not a laughing matter to the one that is being poked fun at.

I’m not trying to put my family down in any way and if it seems that I am doing that, please know that’s not my intention. I love my family very much and there are many wonderful things about them, I’m blessed to have them in my life. Nonetheless this is about changing my speech.

As a result of the second nature harmless in their intentions but damaging on the recipient I have many issues with the way I look and feel about myself. I have prayed many times about this and even though the issues are still there I was determined to not fall into the same rut with my daughter. That set my feet on my current path of gentleness.

I fall short often; unlearning a bad habit that has been instilled in you from well before you can remember is much harder than one may think. I am working on the tone of my voice and I’m making progress. I’m consciously trying to keep my voice down and be sweeter and gentle in my tone. I have noticed when I am able to achieve this, my children react much better. If I catch myself talking to loud and my tone is too harsh, I try to readjust it to a more soothing level and tone. I feel better about myself when I do this and the more I do it the easier it is. I keep repeating to myself, a soft voice turneth away wrath. I don’t call names or put down as much as I use to but it still sneaks in from time to time without me even noticing it. This behavior is something I do not want to see carry its ugly head into the families of my children and children’s children. It’s a nasty cycle that must end now.

It is my hope and prayer to be a motivator for my children to be kind and loving and to encourage others, not to break them down unknowingly with their words and tone.

God Bless,

Tammy

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This is going to be a series I am doing to have running record of how God is changing me for the better!

This weeks dinner menu

2012-01-23T07:51:00.000-05:00

Monday- Pepperoni rolls, oven fries, corn on the cob, apple sauce

Tuesday - Homemade beef a roni, garlic bread, salad

Wednesday - Meatballs n gravy, mash potatoes, green beans, sliced peppers

Thursday - cheese burgers with all the fixens, chips, cob, fruit bowls.

Friday - Baked ziti, dinner rolls, salad

God Bless,
Tammy

* You will see a few questionable meals on my menu plan like chips, pepperoni rolls ect. The chips are a treat and not bought on a weekly basis and the pepperoni rolls are made on occasion and are homemade*

Saturday - honey glazed curried chicken, mash potatoes, greenbeans, peas, apple slices.

If this doesn't make you change the way you eat.....

2012-01-23T07:44:00.000-05:00

Then nothing will. This was posted on facebook for livebetterin2012.

What does this picture tell you? My doctor has had this "processed food" on her counter ever since 2010 and 2011 respectively. I asked her why she had it out, she stated "to show people what they are putting into their bodies". This is man-made "processed food", not real food. Over time real food will decay, grow mold and produce a decomposing odor. This "processed food" has not done any of that, matter of fact it has kept it's original size, shape and texture. Your body has to work harder to breakdown and digest this stuff over real food. Since I've seen this, I have not had any fast food.

And to think we went there for dinner after church yesterday. Boy do I wish I would have seen this before then. I know in my heart of hearts that the way I feel about changing out the way my family eats and the type of foods they eat is right.

I am on a journey to buy fewer and fewer processed foods and cooking/baking more and more from scratch. I have a couple of really good articles I am going to share with you all soon. But for now just let this ponder in your thoughts for a moment.

God Bless,
Tammy

It's Been a Rough Week

2012-01-19T07:56:00.000-05:00

It’s been one of the weeks that what could happen have happened. Dealing with these things has taken a lot of my time up, both mentally and physically. You know when you put your life and your family’s lives in God’s hands, the devil will try everything in his power to bring you down and make you doubt everything you know. That pretty much sums up my week.

I have cried a lot and prayed even more. I have had to go off by myself and just be alone for a short while. I have been shorter tempered than I normally am, I hate feeling like that. I am ashamed that I haven’t held my tongue. Last night I had a long talk with God, I have asked for forgiveness for not remembering what is most important, for allowing the problems /worries of today affect me so greatly. I know I am human and I make mistakes, believe I make a lot of mistakes, but part of my growth with God is seeing those mistakes and facing them and asking for forgiveness and guidance from him.

After my talk with God I laid my head on my pillow and slept a restful and sound sleep. I try to remember he is here with me at all times. He will help me on the path he has laid before me, I just have to trust in him and allow him to lead me and let go off all the issues that the devil knows he can use to hold me back.

A couple of my favorite quotes:

Yesterday is gone, today is a gift, and tomorrow is mystery.

Our past is forgiven, right now is the beginning and tomorrow is in God’s hands.

God Bless,

Tammy

I am linked up at: Women Living Well Blog and Time-Warp Wife

Clutter Run

2012-01-12T09:00:00.000-05:00

I mentioned a clutter run in my post Maintaining is much easier than catching up, I realized later that I didn't have my definition of a clutter run. Well better late than never, right!? : )

A clutter run is simply keeping the clutter picked up.

Here's my definition of a clutter run:

do a run through of all your rooms to make sure that all misplaced items are put back in appropriate places. Make sure all dirty dishes are in the dishwasher or wash them by hand quickly. Make sure all laundry is in it's appropriate place. If you have enough for a load do don't let it set and sour,do it. Make sure all toys and books and magazine are put up, shoes, coats,purses,ect are all put up in their designated place.

God Bless,
Tammy

My Cleaning Routine Schedule

2012-01-12T07:00:00.000-05:00

I stive to have a clean and organized home. I enjoy the feeling I get when I know my home is clean and smells fresh. I sat down many year ago and wrote down a cleaning schedule, I set a day a week for cleaning and assigned rooms and areas of my home to a given day. It has worked wonders for me. Here is my schedule.

Monday - Bathroom(s) + Daily Cleaning
Tuesday - Living Room, Family Room, Den + Daily Cleaning
Wednesday- Bedroom(s) + Daily Cleaning
Thursday - Kitchen, Dinning Room + Daily Cleaning
Friday - Laundry Room, Vehicles, school room + Daily Cleaning
Saturday - outside work + Daily Cleaning
Sunday - minimal work (Sabbath) Day of Rest

Having it all broken down makes it so much easier to manage. I will post my cleaning routine soon.

God Bless,
Tammy

Reading God's Word and.....

2012-01-11T08:59:00.000-05:00

“And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up” Deuteronomy 6:5-7 KJV.

Teaching and reading God's word to our children is something that is so very important if we expect them to continue on with their journey of living for Christ and studying his word when they grow up. Children do what they see. If they see mom and dad indulging in God's word and praying they are more likely to do it themselves. Then if we include them with us, God's awesome mighty word and wisdom will be firmly set within their hearts. This is something that will be with them long after we are gone. When we pray with our children, we are showing them that God is not only our God, our savior but also our friend. They also see that there is more than one way to pray. Sometimes just talking to him like a friend is all that is needed. It shows them that God is approachable and is a part of our everyday life. “Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you” Matthew 6:33 K.JV.

Instilling his word into their hearts is a goal that we take seriously. It is our hope and prayer that they will have a heart to serve the Lord as they grow older. “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it” Proverbs 22:6 KJV. We see this happening within our older sons. They make us so proud, showing that they have faith in Jesus. They obey his voice when he speaks to their hearts. There are times just as with any of us they don’t obey the first time. I think it’s a human thing to doubt what you are feeling or hearing is truly God. Sometimes we feel the need to ask for more proof is it really in fact him. It’s the carnal side of us all. As we mature in our relationship with Jesus we still struggle from time to time with these carnal feelings. It’s so easy to doubt but to step out in faith is much harder.

While we know that there are things that we do as humans that are counterproductive in our walk with God, we know that he is mighty and he loves, ready to forgive us. For our children to see us in our Christian walk and know that we are not perfect, when they see us struggle but in the same turning to God asking him for forgiveness and wisdom. We believe we must be proactive in teaching our children about Jesus and to make God’s word and prayer a part of their everyday life. If we would leave our children to learn these things on their own the results would not be as we would hope. God’s word tells us in Proverbs Ch. 29: 15 KJV “The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame”, we have to make God an intricate part of our lives, to make his living word and holy sprite to intertwine within our spirit.

By making God’s word and daily prayer a part of our children’s lives we are faithful they will be wise in making decisions in their lives for the future as well as the present. “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners” I Cor. 15:33 KJV. With a firm foundation of the bible, Jesus and the Holy Ghost, we believe that this is vital in guiding them through their lives.

God Bless,
Tammy

Homemaker in training/helping in the kitchen

2012-01-10T09:53:00.001-05:00

Teaching my daughter how to be a Godly young lady is a task I take to heart. It give me much pleasure and joy to watch her tackle a task in our home and to see the curiosity in her eyes as she asks questions while she sees me working. There are many lesson a mother can undergo in teaching her daughter to be a Godly wife and mother, but for today I want to talk about “Help in the kitchen”.

The value of teaching my daughter the ins and outs of the kitchen are very valuable. Not only will she be a blessing to me but later in life she will be tremendous blessing to her husband and later children. I know that it would take less time to just do it all myself but how is that going to help her learn. If I selfishly push her aside and not make the time to teach her, how am I really helping her? I know that when I’m mixing up a batch of cookies or making pizza crust it would be so much easier to just do it myself and it would be far less messy and trying. This kind of thinking has led our young ladies down a road of selfish thinking themselves and rendered them rather ignorant in the kitchen. This is something they will have to work hard to learn later on in life, and they will most likely feel frustrated and down on themselves all because of the lack of patience, love and Godly guidance and wisdom to show her the ropes from an early age.

If you have not been taking the time to teach your daughter and you think it’s too late, it’s not. When you’re making a meal or snack have her come in and assign her a job to do. The added bonus of being in the kitchen with your daughter and working side by side is the talks and close relationship that can develop from it.

For little ones give them small jobs to start. Wash fruits and vegetables. Set the table. Help you clean up after a task has been completed. As they grow older you can start giving them bigger jobs like Opening cans for you, stirring a pot on the stove, washing or rinsing the dishes. By taking the time to teach her you are instilling valuable skills for her future. You as a Godly mother can take rest in knowing she has been well taught for her role as a wife and later a mother. When she does get married and leave home she can do in confidence knowing she has been well schooled in the matters of homemaking.

I always try to remember that the biggest example of a Godly woman to my daughter is ME! The way I handle situations, react to life’s stresses, how often she sees me pray, etc. By investing time and knowledge into my daughter I feel that I am truly doing what it says in Titus 2: 3-5 The aged women likewise, that [they be] in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 [To be] discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

God Bless,

Tammy

For Today...

2012-01-06T08:03:00.000-05:00

For today I choose to smile. For today I choose to look beyond my stressors. For today I choose to not sweat the small stuff. For today I choose to see the lighter side of things. For today I choose to laugh when I feel like crying. For today I choose to give more hugs to my children. For today I choose to be a blessing to a stranger. For today I choose to not ponder on all that is wrong and see all that is right in my life. For today I choose to see things from another perspective. For today I choose to allow myself time to just be goofy with my daughter. For today I choose to allow God’s grace and glory shine in my life. For today I choose to find a place, kneel on my knees and tell Jesus of all my worries and sorrows. For today I choose to sing a song I’ve never sang before. For today I choose to walk away when someone chooses to hurt me and say a prayer for them. For today I choose love over anger. For today I choose to see the good in others. For today I choose to open my eyes to the beauty God has set before me. For today I choose to keep it cool. For today I choose to be the example to my daughter of a Godly woman, with God’s grace and love I can achieve this. For today I choose to stop and smell the roses of life. For today I choose to rethink my thinking. For today I choose to love more. For today I choose to give more. For today I choose to cry for a friend when they need me. For today I choose to be a better person. For today I choose happiness!

God Bless,
Tammy

Maintaining is much easier than catching up

2012-01-05T09:25:00.000-05:00

I love the feeling of a clean home. Knowing that no matter who may stop by, my home is ready for company. It is warm and welcoming, it looks and smells clean. It's clutter free and organized. This is a proud time for a homemaker.

Now let’s move onto how one is to achieve this. Of course a good cleaning routine is a must, so to develop or if you would like you can use mine. : )Added note: I will be posting my cleaning routine very soon. : ) Hard work is a must, your home is not going to be as clean and organized as you want it to be if you are not willing to put the work into making it that way. Determination, dedication and a little elbow grease takes you so far and let us not forget prayer. Yes, I said prayer, praying and asking God for the wisdom and desire to do this is not wrong to ask God. You are blessing your husband and your whole family by being diligent in keeping your home cleaned and organized. This is our God given role, why wouldn't you want to embrace it and ask God for guidance.

Let’s fast forward a little shall we........ Your home is now clean, clutter is under control and it’s organized. You feel so proud of all your hard work, you stand and look around and take a deep breath of satisfaction. You can rest easy now that your work is done.That is true to a point. Yes you can relax some but you still have to maintain your home. Working daily to keep it clean and organized. If you let is lapse you will be right back to putting in all the hard work and soon your frustrated and give up. Thinking it's just too hard and takes up too much time to have the type of home you want. You start thinking that women that have homes like that do nothing all day but clean. That is not true.

When you clean a dirty home, yes it's hard, yes it's time consuming, yes it's overwhelming at times. But once you achieve your goal of a clean and organized home it is much easier to maintain that level of cleanliness.

By cleaning daily and working your cleaning routine you will find it takes much less time to clean your home because you are cleaning it daily. It is much easier to de-clutter because you are working daily to keep your home clutter free by doing clutter runs. You will then know it's much easier to keep a clean home clean that to clean a dirty home in other words it's far easier to maintain than to play catch up.

God Bless,

Tammy

Brrrr Wednesday

2012-01-04T12:50:00.000-05:00

We had a snow front come through Monday and it left behind cold temperatures! While the snow was beautiful and so much fun to play in, the temperatures made it difficult to stay out for an extended period of time. Still yet my kids had a blast sledding and making snow angels.

I gave the kids a half day of school under the conditions that they would work hard and they did. So they got the rest of the day to enjoy the snow before it's all gone and a muddy mess it left in it's place.

It was the perfect time to make a nice hot dinner. Soup beans and cornbread was on the menu last night. And oh did it every hit the spot. I also made a few batches of chocolate chip and sugar cookies. The oven being on kept the house nice and warm.

I have so many things on my heart and mind that I am praying about. Asking the Lord for guidance and wisdom. Some I will share on here others will be left for the right time. I feel the Lord leading my husband and I down new paths, it's exciting and too be honest a bit scary. I'm a routine person by nature and I like things just so, and everything that has been happening and is going to happen is anything but, but all the same I find a comfort in allowing God to lead us. He is the potter we are the clay!

God Bless,
Tammy

Reflecting on 2011

2011-12-30T12:04:00.002-05:00

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It's hard to believe that 2011 is almost over and 2012 is about to begin. As I sit and think about 2011 and all that has happened. I find many joys and blessings and a few heart aches along the way. Looking back I can see how God has been there through the good and the bad. He has given me strength when I had no strength left, he gave me wisdom when I was at a loss, he comforted me when I was hurting, he is truly the father I always wanted and so very blessed to have him as my savior, friend, and father.

I have lost my earthly father to a sinful world but gained a son that I adore. I have gone from teaching to homeschooling, a decision I love and have been blessed beyond words for making it. My oldest son Jason graduated and started college, he has completed his first semester and did awesome!

I have learned many lessons and new things. I have learned to let go even when you really don't want too. When my dad left us, it hurt me deeply. I felt I was at a loss and couldn't believe what was happening to us. After trying to give him another chance and getting deeply hurt yet again, I had to come to the realization that I must walk away and let him go, that is exactly what I did. I still pray for his soul but I no longer have any contact with him. I have learned to forgive and not hold onto hurt or bitterness, it is very damaging to our overall body and health and just not worth it.

I have learned to be more soft spoken and kind ,a lesson I would have never been able to achieve without God. The product of this lesson has been remarkable. Our home is lighter and brighter, the feeling is much more comforting and relaxing. I'm not perfect and I still make mistakes but I have learned it's OK to admit your wrong and ask for forgiveness. Showing my children my humility by asking for forgiveness when I'm wrong is showing them the right way to handle themselves when they are in the wrong.

So many things have brought me to where I am today. Some if I had to choose I would have chosen another route but all things happen for the good of those that love the Lord. And through my trials in the valley and my cheers on the mountain tops God has been there each step. I called out to him in my pain and he carried me, I cried out to him in joy and praised with me.

I step into 2012 with eager anticipation to see what God has in store for our family! He is the driver and we are his passengers!

God Bless,

Tammy

Curriculum Ordered

2011-08-01T10:23:00.000-04:00

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After a long search and research on the net,I found a curriculum that I feel is going to work well for us. LoveToLearn.net is the curriculum I purchased. It's a Christian based curriculum and has phonics that will be shipping with one order. Given that this is my first year of official homeschooling I may and well probably will tweak it a bit or a lot. Who knows! But I am so excited to start.

I have been doing some summer homeschooling with them and it has been very helpful to Devon. His reading and math skills have gotten so much better. He is feeling more comfortable with his work and he is trying very hard. : )

With Carissa I mainly did a review as she went through her school work so quickly last year that I needed to make sure she really "got" it. And I'm happy to say that she did.

I'm about to head out to the grocery store so I need to jump off here.

God Bless,
Tammy

I am now a HOMESCHOOLING MOMMA

2011-07-20T08:48:00.001-04:00

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I have been praying about this decision for over a year,but have felt the nudge to move forward with it for many years. But out of fear I doubted myself.

I love the school that I teach in and my daughter goes to. It's a faith built Apostolic one God school. But with that said since my nephew/son has moved in and I have been conducting summer school here at home. I have found that he is terribly behind in many areas.

The public school that he attended since pre-k has sadly pushed him along each year and each year he has become increasingly behind. Then they wondered why he was easily frustrated and restless. He was not catching on. I was very surprised when I found out they actually passed him to move onto the 3rd grade. When he can barely read at the first grade level,his math skills are very low and more. The good thing and I thank Jesus for this is that he is catching on. I am taking things very slow with him and he is responding.

He gets down on himself sometimes when he sees my daughter excel so quickly at her tasks. I just reassure him that she has had more one on one and private school education but that he will get better,he only needs to believe in himself and work hard. I know I'm going to.

I am so excited I feel like I have finally made the right decision. I have a peace in my heart that I have not had before. My husband is 100% backing me up and my oldest son even wants to help teach Spanish. I know there will be pumps in the road but as long as we keep Jesus as the center of our lives in all areas he will give us the strength and wisdom to continue on.

God Bless,

Tammy

Our trip to Amish Country

2011-07-19T20:09:00.000-04:00

We had such a nice time. It was so relaxing. No cable,no phone,no internet,we loved it.
This was the scene from our room in the b&b.

We went sight seeing. The Amish were so nice and a lot of fun to talk to.

Here are a few pictures from the b&b we stayed at.

this is the back of the b&b,as you can see it's a stand alone cabin divided into 2 rooms.

side view

From the front

Cute little pond behind the b&b. We took this from the deck on our side.

The root cellar of an 1866 Amish home. The next few pictures are of this home.

Sink,where water was carried for washing dishes and other things. On the counter you can see a little bowl of white stuff,this is lye soap. They used it for everything. Washing dishes,clothes,hair and body. They said it works great on poison ivy and bug bits too.

The cooking stove where many loving meals and yummy loaves of bread were made.

It's a bit sidways but this is the heating stove they used. The pipe went all through the house to heat the lower and upper floor.

Pedal sewing machine,you can see a basket of roled rags that they used to make rugs.

Master bedroom,you can see on the floor one of their homemade rugs. This bed is made of straw. Very hard and no comfort.

Another bedroom they said it was a girls room,straw bed and chest to keep clothes and other things in it.

Little boys room,I love the rug on the floor lovely colors

chest for storing things. Here you can see the black pipe pertruding from the floor boards through the ceiling. This is the pipe from the heating stove in the lving room.

Next few pictures are of a more modern home. This is what you would find if you were to go into an old order amish home today.

Nice big kitchen!

Large living room. Here you can see the wood heating stove,it looks a lot like the modern ones that you see in stores today.

This is a battery operated lamp. On the other side by the couch was a propane lamp but I didnt get a picture of it.

I thought this wood toy was cute

My silly husband! Like his new wheels!

One more carriage.

The name and date of the family that built this barn.

Baby horse only 2 months old

These goats were so cute!

Donkey,he was a friendly little fella

Lots of lambs

John hand feeding this little one oats.

And so I trip had a lot more than just these pictures but maybe that will a post for another time. So for now Good night! God Bless!

Oh my goodness it's been that long.....

2011-06-08T18:32:00.000-04:00

Wow,I didn't realize I haven't updated my blog since August LOL. I have been so busy. I was working at our Christian school,Apostolic Christian Academy,between that and taking care of things at home I had very little time to work on my blog.

Now that summer is here I can update you with a few things that have been going around here.

First off my little girl Carissa has the Holy Ghost! It was an awesome evening. She recieved this wonderful gift in October. I cried like a baby when she recieved it. That meant my whole family now had the Holy Ghost. I was beaming with pridea and felt so blessed I was overwhelmed.

Here is a picture someone took for me,while I was praying with her. It's not the best quality because it was taken from a cell phone but I believe it caught the power of the mement just fine.

Remember I said that meant that my whole family had the Holy Ghost,well little did I know how things would change. When you put your life in God's hands and put him in charge you never know where he will take you and how blessed your life can be because of it.

My nephew that I refer to as my son,is living with us. We are raising him. He is 8 years old and full of love and joy.

He is a blessing to our family and is absolutely tickeled to be a part of our household. He is full of questions and is eager to learn. I love teaching him and he just obsorbes as much information as he can.

I have been praying about something for a long while now. And the Lord has given me my answer. I will talk about that more at a later time though.

This brings me to our oldest son Jason's high school graduation. I still can't believe that he is old enough to graduate. In the weeks before his graduation my mind was flooded with memories,all the little things that we don't think much about at the time and many of the monumental things as well.

The night of his graduation I was emotional of course. I cried and smiled at the same time. Now he is going onto his next phase of life,college. He has been accepted in a university around here and starts in August.

Time really does fly. We are so proud of him and know he is going to do great in the future.

Well that's all the time I have for now.

God Bless,
Tammy

Fall Cleaning

2010-08-19T09:25:00.000-04:00

With Summer soon coming to an end and fall beginning I start to focus on getting things done to prepare for the cooler temperatures.

I first go through the house and make a list of things I want to focus on that I may not otherwise. From there I make my way outside and walk all along my property. I make a detailed list of things I want to take care of inside and out of my home.

Things I look for are..... do the carpets need to be cleaned,do the drapes need cleaned,is there anything that needs to be painted or repaired before it gets to cold out to do so,wash the patio furniture and wash cushions to later put away,make sure the gutters are clean,is there any weeding or trimming that need to be done,does the siding need to be washed down. These are all things I look at as well as anything else I may see that needs some attention and add it to my list.

I work on my list until it's complete or at least that's the plan. I also enlist my whole family to work on it. We work together as a family to complete the list. In a short time our home is ready for the new season.

Tammy

Been Too Long.....

2010-08-18T09:50:00.000-04:00

Since my last post. Soooo I suppose it's time I fill you all in with what has been going on with me.

I hit a very low spot in my life. Actually the lowest I have ever been. I found out some things about my dad and it crushed me. What I thought I knew I no longer knew. What I believed I wasn't sure about any longer. I questioned everything and everyone in my life. I felt like the foundation under my feet was shaking and I was weak. I had no joy and no reason to strive for joy.

I sat down one night before bed and cried out to Jesus,asking him to please help me. I poured my heart out to him and talked to him. I had so many questions and poured it all out to him that night in my room. And literally the next day things started falling into place,he was holding me up and helping me.

No my circumstances haven't changed but my outlook and feeling about everything has. I have joy where I lost it,I have hope where I had none. I wish things were different but they aren't and I can't change that.

Proverbs 18:10 The name of the Lord is a strong tower:the righteous runneth into it,and is safe.

This verse helps me so much. It spoke to me when I couldn't hear and was deep within the pit of darkness. Jesus never left my side,he was there crying and holding me,talking to my heart. Finally though my desperation I reached out to him again and again and broke though. He took me in his arms and held me like a father does. I am so grateful to have a saviour that loves me that much.

Tammy

Easy Storage for sheets

2010-07-15T12:42:00.000-04:00

A good rule of thumb when remembering how many sets of sheets you should have is... 2,yep that's it. 2 sets per bed in your home. That is one set on the bed and one to change out when it's time to wash the bedding.

Another tip is when you are crunched for storage space,fold the extra set of sheets and tuck them neatly between the mattress and box spring. Then on laundry day all you will have to do is take the sheets out from under that mattress and put it on them on the bed(s). Wash the dirty set(s) and then fold them and place them in between the mattresses.

Tammy

The Happy Homemaker

Easy Clean For Your Microwave

2010-07-07T09:52:00.000-04:00

This came in a newsletter from debtproofliving.

I needed a way to clean my microwave when I could not get rid of the smell and splatters from a garlic dish. I wet two large paper towels with warm water and laid them on a paper plate. I squirted Dawn dish washing liquid all over the top and put it in the microwave oven on high for two minutes. When I opened the door, the oven smelled fresh and I could easily wipe the particles from the inside. It looks like new

Tammy
The Happy Homemaker

Budget and Menu Planning -repost

2010-07-06T10:23:00.000-04:00

I posted this on my old blog and read over it the other day while going through files and thought it was worth a repost.

Here it is in it's original state....

Each and every one of us has the day that we balance the books and work on our menu for the following week with shopping list following. My day for this is Thursday. It's the day before my husband gets paid so it I make sure that everything balances out before the new pay enters. I also make a plan for the upcoming week as to how we will be spending and such.

I set out any bills that need to be paid with that weeks pay along with envelopes,stamps and address labels. That way I have it all ready to go when they need to.

I also make up our menu for our meals for the following week this day because I have been doing our shopping on Friday mornings. This works best for us as our weekends are so busy. Once I get the menu made up I start on our shopping list. I try to keep a running list of things we are running out of or that we or someone needs,like toothpaste,deodorant,medication,ect. When someone notices that we or they are running low on something it's added to the running list. When I am making up the main grocery list I add those items that we are needing. That way I'm not running back out to get what we forgot and can't wait until next week.

Once I have the list made up I make sure it's not going to go over budget by adding the prices to make sure I stay on budget. I do this because I have the prices of the things I frequently buy. If it's something I'm not sure of I look it up and get a good sound idea of what it's going to cost and add that.

It's important to stay on budget as much as you can,especially if you have plans or are saving up for something. We have set our budget as low as we can and all of our expenses are subtracted from that amount. That way we are staying focused on our future goals and not living beyond our means. It's not easy but it can be done. Anything over the amount that we have set is saved. Right now we are using that to buy Christmas gifts. So we are not using credit to purchase. After the holidays we will save it. We are still working on the house so that amount will be used on the house to complete it,again working as we go so not to go into debt.

Tammy
The Happy Homemaker

Christmas is not an issue (yet) but saving and paying off some debt are. So any extra we have goes to that. I will rejoice the day we pay off our debt!

MYO: Oxy Clean

2010-07-02T13:05:00.000-04:00

This recipe has been floating around on the net for some time.

1/2 C hydrogen peroxide

1/2 C baking soda

1 C. hotwater

Mix together and apply to stains, or add to machine and wash as usual.

Tammy
The Happy Homemaker

A Random Acts Of Kindness

2010-07-01T09:59:00.000-04:00

Sometimes all someone needs is to know there is someone out there that still cares. In a harsh and cold world kindness is often rare. Seeing someone that may need assistance doesn't take much energy but to that person could be the world. Even if you would try to help someone and they refuse your help,your out nothing. Just the offer could be enough for that person.

What does the bible have to say about kindness,well a lot.

Proverbs 19:22 What is desired in a man is kindness,and a poor man is better than a liar.

Proverbs 31:26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom,and her tongue is the law of kindness.

Romans 12:10 Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another;

1 Corinthians 13:4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;

Ephesians 4:32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.

Colossians 3:12 Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering;

Luke 8:40-42 So it was, when Jesus returned, that the multitude welcomed Him, for they were all waiting for Him. 41 And behold, there came a man named Jairus, and he was a ruler of the synagogue. And he fell down at Jesus' feet and begged Him to come to his house, 42 for he had an only daughter about twelve years of age, and she was dying. But as He went, the multitudes thronged Him.

Luke 8:43-46 Now a woman, having a flow of blood for twelve years, who had spent all her livelihood on physicians and could not be healed by any, 44 came from behind and touched the border of His garment. And immediately her flow of blood stopped. 45 And Jesus said, "Who touched Me?" When all denied it, Peter and those with him said, "Master, the multitudes throng and press You, and You say, 'Who touched Me?'" 46 But Jesus said, "Somebody touched Me, for I perceived power going out from Me."

Luke 8:47-48 Now when the woman saw that she was not hidden, she came trembling; and falling down before Him, she declared to Him in the presence of all the people the reason she had touched Him and how she was healed immediately. 48 And He said to her, "Daughter, be of good cheer; your faith has made you well. Go in peace."

Luke 8:48 And He said to her, "Daughter, be of good cheer; your faith has made you well. Go in peace."

Luke 8:49-56 While He was still speaking, someone came from the ruler of the synagogue's house, saying to him, "Your daughter is dead. Do not trouble the Teacher." 50 But when Jesus heard it, He answered him, saying, "Do not be afraid; only believe, and she will be made well." 51 When He came into the house, He permitted no one to go in except Peter, James, and John, and the father and mother of the girl. 52 Now all wept and mourned for her; but He said, "Do not weep; she is not dead, but sleeping." 53 And they ridiculed Him, knowing that she was dead. 54 But He put them all outside, took her by the hand and called, saying, "Little girl, arise." 55 Then her spirit returned, and she arose immediately. And He commanded that she be given something to eat. 56 And her parents were astonished, but He charged them to tell no one what had happened.

John 13:34 "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.

John 15:17 "These things I command you, that you love one another.

Ephesians 4:32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.

Luke 6:31 "And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise.

So as you can see the bible does in deed have a lot to say about the different ways to be kind.

Here's the challenge....... This week step out and show some random acts of kindness to someone that you may see that needs it. Help hold a door open for a mom that is trying to get her buggy out the door of a store. Help an elderly woman by holding the door open for her. Allow someone with less items to go ahead of you at the check out. Let a driver out in front of you. There are literally millions of ways you can show a little kindness to another person. So come on and get on board with me. Send me a comment with your random acts of kindness that you may have done this week. Next Thursday I will post any I have done and maybe get a linksy to link your blogs to this one with a nice post doing just what Jesus wants us to do being kind and showing kindness to other.

Tammy
The Happy Homemaker

Joyfully Doing Laundry

2010-06-30T14:46:00.000-04:00

Photo provided by photobucket

I am particpating in Polished Cornerstones Projects being hosted @ Raising Homemakers.

We are focusing on blessings our family by keeping the laundry cleaning. I have been having discussions with my daughter Carissa age 8 of how something as simple as keeping laundry clean is a tremendous blessing to our family. How it's a small but very important part of how we as women live in the role that God designed for us. How if we go about our work even while doing laundry with a glad heart,saying a prayer for our family as we work, we are doing God's will.

In our discussion was ...
Proverbs 31:27 She looketh well to the ways of her household,and eateth not the bread of idleness.

What we do,do with a cheerful heart as to be a blessing to our families. Be strong and work hard giving God the glory in all we do.

Tammy
The Happy Homemaker

Professional House Cleaning Procedure

2010-06-29T10:04:00.000-04:00

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I found this in my files while purging them this morning,this article is not myslef, I found it on the net a long while ago,but it's neat to see how someone else went about their business professionally cleaning.

Dress comfortably and always wear tennis shoes. You will be getting into showers and tubs full of chemicals & want your feet protected.

As soon as you get to (the house), unload your stuff into entryway or utility room: cleaning caddy with supplies (Tilex, Comet, Glass Plus, Pledge, Murphy's Oil Soap, rubbing alcohol, white vinegar, Mr. Clean, Lysol liquid, Liquid Gold, Endust, Clorox in a spray bottle, ammonia in a spray bottle, plastic cup for rinsing showers); mop bucket with rags (5+ for kitchen & baths, dust rags, 2+ larger rags/hand towels for drying bathrooms, roll of paper towels, duster, baby bottle brush, rubber gloves, old toothbrushes, Scotch pads, old Walmart bags); dust mop; sponge mop; & vacuum cleaner with fresh bag. Bring yourself a cold bottle of water and a few healthy energy-boosting snacks (like Snickers -- just kidding!).

First: The "Walk Through" -- Whiz through their house and do a general pick up. PUT ALL CLUTTER AWAY!! Housecleaners often mistakenly think that people don't want their stuff being moved, but this generally is not true! Put it all up! If they had time to do it, they wouldn't hire you! Just stash it in a place where they're likely to find it. It won't be the end of the world if they have to make a phone call to you to locate an item. I have only hired a housecleaner one time -- $150 for a "deep clean." When I got home, bathrooms were shining, floors vacuumed, & furniture dusted; but... the same little bit of junk was still out! The bed was even still rumpled sloppily, just like I had made it that morning. Ugh, I didn't want to look at that "stuff" when I walked in the door! No one does! So, for example, if you're cleaning for a bathroom clutterbug... put all those cosmetics and toiletries in a drawer or find an empty basket and load it. Don't worry about what the inside of drawers, closets, etc. looks like too much; just stash the stuff that's in sight (within reason -- I'm not saying to junk up their closets! Just don't be nitpicky about what can't be seen!). I can't ramble enough about getting the clutter out of sight!

Also, about the "walk through" -- grab all laundry & pile in designated hamper or laundry room (we didn't deal with people's laundry, just cleaning), load dirty dishes into dishwasher, empty all small trash cans into large one, and keep an eye out for cobwebs/dustbunnies/really grimy things that need attention (somehow my $150 cleaning lady missed the huge spot on the wall by the trash can where my toddler had splattered yogurt!). By the way, we didn't strip beds and change sheets except in special circumstances, and then we charged $5 extra per bed. Same with windows.

After all is tidy, go around with your duster (you may spray with Endust -- NOT Pledge -- too oily!) and hit the blinds, ceiling fans, and cobwebs. Use your baby bottle brush on the lampshades. Spray Endust on your dustmop to reach ceiling fans and high cobwebs. Basically, get all the up-high dust down.

Grab all the small rugs, bath mats, etc. and take outside to shake and air out while you do the house.

After the general decluttering and de-dusting (not the deep dusting...yet), grab your caddy and a couple of rags and head to the biggest bathroom...

Remember, all this time, think... ENERGY!!! You are moving at the speed of lightning at all times. The law of inertia...

In the bathroom... move all stuff out of your way! Put it on the floor in the hall, out of the bathroom. This includes knick-knacks on counter, toothbrush holder (which can be put into dishwasher, BTW), bathtub toys, shampoo bottles, etc. Get that vanity, tub, & toilet cleared off. Then sweep out the whole bathroom with your dustmop. Get into every nook and cranny. It's easier to deal with all that hair now, while it's dry.

Now glove, then spray everything down with Tilex, then sprinkle with Comet. Wait a few seconds, then go to town on that vanity/counter/sink. Use elbow grease and a rag to get it glimmering. Suds up the whole counter, faucet, etc. Then rinse, rinse, and rinse again. Do not leave one speck of Comet residue!! Rinse VERY well!

Continue on with tub, shower, and toilet same way. Suds up everything (I mean every square inch), scrub, and rinse well. Particularly your first time in a house, the shower is going to be awful -- soap scum, etc. Bust it! You can do it! SCRUB! Use your Scotch pads! Use the old toothbrush! If needed, rinse the shower out and hit with Clorox. If that doesn't clear the grime, next time shoot it with straight ammonia (but NEVER combine Clorox & ammonia -- dangerous fumes!). Nothing impresses people like a sparkling bathroom.

Use your rinsed out rag to wipe door frames, door knobs, light switch & outlet plates, towel racks, shelves, etc. Squirt with Clorox if needed.

When you're done with the tub & shower, hit the toilet... from tank to base. Get your face down in that toilet. Stick your rubber gloved hand in there with your rag and scrub every inch in that bowl. Work your way out all around outside of bowl and base. Squirt Clorox around the base if needed. Use a toothbrush. Don't worry about sloshing water on the floor; you'll get it up in a little bit. Do the seat, tank, lid, etc. Squirt Clorox on the bolts for the lid, too & use the toothbrush there. Don't leave a single hair or speck of grime.

When all is shining (and smelling like Clorox!), dry it all with a larger rag. This is an often neglected but important step. It really brings on the shine. Dry the vanity & sink, paying special attention to getting the chrome shiny, then the shower, tub, & toilet. Then pour a little Lysol (liquid) into the toilet bowl.

Now spray the mirror down with Glass Plus (the best -- if you can't find it, and I haven't been able to lately, settle for Windex). Use a double thickness of FLAT paper towel and get the mirror shining and streak free. Now use that damp paper towel to further shine the faucet (if needed after drying) and wipe all the "stuff" that you set in the hall. No "stuff" gets put back in without being wiped -- the shampoo bottle & everything. When all is in place, wipe the trash can clean and then coat it with a little Pledge or floor wax so it won't be so tough to shine next time.

Now... back to the toilet bowl with Lysol. You will use this to clean the floor. Clean the floor from the toilet?!? If you did the job right, that toilet should be just as sanitary as the kitchen sink! Get your gloves back on, stick your rag back in the commode, and get it all Lysoled up. Wring, then get to work on the floor and baseboards (farthest from the door first). If the toilet water gets too grimy, flush, refill with Lysol, and continue on...

Wipe your way out of the bathroom, then put all those yucky used rags in an old Walmart bag.

Now head to next bathroom(s) and repeat procedure.

When all bathrooms are glimmering and you are feeling good about your work, but just a little tired, go take a big swig of water, have a snack if needed... then motivate yourself to face the kitchen!

You should have already gotten the kitchen clutter- and dish-free during the walk through, but if not, do it quickly. If the dishwasher is at least half full, go ahead and run it. Spray the sink down with Clorox and sprinkle on Comet. Let it sit for a second while you down the Snickers (ha ha ha). Glove and scrub the sink. Just use a rag if you can get by with it. If it's worse, dig out the old toothbrush and Scotch pads. Get the sink shining, then rinse rinse rinse. Rinse your rag out well, then hit the counters. Move and clean under EVERYTHING, no matter how bad of clutter bugs these people are (you must have considered that when you bid the job!). Wipe everything -- the canisters, cookie jar, can opener, knick knacks, etc. When you're done with the "ragging," finish shining up the appliances & knick knacks with Glass Plus and paper towels. Don't forget microwave, inside and out. I once forgot someones micro interior, and it dawned on me that evening. I went back to the house with Glass Plus & paper towels to do their microwave. They thought I was weird, but great! Get the stove & oven door glistening (leave inside of oven alone, unless that's in the "contract." Leave inside fridge along, too; but definitely hit the top/sides/door). One of the first place people check for dust is top of fridge. Hit it with your rag. Also Glass Plus the glass patio door and front screen door, if applicable.

Occasionally you will want to hit the cabinets and woodwork with Liquid Gold and an OLD dust rag (that can be trashed when done). This looks & smells great and is really impressive. Do it once every month or two. Be careful though, it is OILY and will ruin a lot of things. Spray your rag carefully (like over the trash cans) and try to wipe it on evenly.

Get the kitchen sparkling as well as you did the bathrooms. Step back and look to make sure you didn't neglect something obvious. Sometimes it's hard to see the forest for the trees when cleaning. Don't forget to empty trash & put a new bag in.

Now fill your mop bucket with hot water and Mr. Clean (a couple of caps full). Dust mop & mop the kitchen. Go ahead and do any other tile or laminate floors, like the entryway and dining area. If they have hardwoods, use Murphy's & hot water unless they insist on vinegar (find out during the initial estimate visit). I think vinegar is harsh for hardwoods, but their builders tell them to use it so they do. Respect the client's wishes. One tip about hardwoods -- you must use only a very slightly damp sponge mop, or there will be streaks galore! Squeeze that mop out half to death before mopping. You won't have to mop the woods every time; every other just run over with a dustmop sprayed with Endust.

After the floors are mopped, dump the water outside or down the disposal side of sink. Then dry the sink and shine it up with rubbing alcohol on paper towels (tip: once you generate enough empty alcohol bottles you can use them to store your vinegar, Murphy's, Lysol, etc. to save room in your caddy. Use old rinsed out Tilex bottles for Clorox & ammonia).

Now to the rest of the house... the easy part!

You've already picked up the clutter, so it just needs a good dusting and vacuuming. First, use a rag to hit the washer and dryer (don't forget gunk under washer lid), clean the utility rm sink if applicable, and wipe the obviously dirty baseboards, door frames, light switch plates, etc. You don't have to do all these every time, just alternate them; and always get the nasty looking ones. Check for grimy wall spots or other obvious filth.

Now grab your Glass Plus & roll of paper towels. You're going to dust EVERYTHING that can't be hit with dust rag & Pledge -- including but not limited to picture frames & glass, knick knacks, TV screens, lamp bases, glass inserts in coffee tables, etc. BTW, don't ever spray directly onto TV & computer monitors and framed art; dampen your paper towel, then wipe. Use a systematic approach to each room and get into the habit of working your way around and missing NOTHING!

After you have Glass Plussed the entire house (don't forget glass screen doors or patio doors and window inserts in doors), grab your dustrag and Pledge. Saturate the cloth with Pledge and hit everything that didn't get Glass Plussed. I rarely spray the Pledge onto furniture; just spray both sides of the cloth (I like those yellow cloths with red seams you get near the auto detailing supplies at WalMart). Pick up EVERYTHING and wipe every object and under every object. Even if they are clutterbugs with a million knick knacks... pick up every single one and dust thoroughly. Jump up on a chair and hit the top of the bookcases (your sneaker soles should be clean after standing in the shower scrubbing & rinsing!). Dust EVERYTHING!!!!

After all is dusted, clean, & sparkly... gather all your junk and set it right outside front door. Get all trash including your used paper towels and take it out. Bring the rugs & mats back in, fluff pillows, check bathrooms for Comet residue, and do your final walk through BEFORE vacuuming. You want to vacuum your way out of the house and leave nice systematic vacuum tracks (not your sneaker tracks) that will impress their socks off!

When you are satisfied that this house is nigh perfect, then start farthest from the front door & vacuum vacuum vacuum. Do not vacuum AROUND things... vacuum UNDER things. Pick up chairs, move furniture & toys, etc. Vacuum every square inch of carpet that you can possibly get to (it would be very wise to wear a back brace at this time), including stairs. Use your hose & attachments to hit the part where carpet meets wall and immovable furniture and do windowsills, etc. as needed. Right before you leave a room, make pretty little even vacuum tracks all across the floor so that it looks GREAT (By the way, you want to leave all blinds open and all doors open so that the sun floods the dustless rooms and they just come in and walked through mesmerized by the beauty!). Vacuum your way right out the front door, and don't forget to lock it! (I even pull my plug from the entryway floor -- I never step on vacuumed carpet!).

Now, isn't that inspiring?!? I think I'm ready to hit my house!

If there is any confusion about what I wrote or you have further questions about specific situations... feel free to ask. I'm sure I've dealt with about everything in my house cleaning experience! Pet hair, filth, huge clutter bugs, etc. Just consider the personality and needs of the client and go the extra mile to really impress them. Add special touches that no one else thinks of. And, oh, yes, I forgot ... we DID put a chocolate on their pillows! Andes mints!! (Before you vacuum, of course!)

Tammy
The Happy Homemaker

Menu Plan Monday

2010-06-28T12:50:00.000-04:00

Monday - Spaghetti with meatballs,garlic bread,tossed salad

Tuesday - bbq chicken,mac & cheese,corn on the cob

Wednesday - Oven fried chicken,mash potatoes,gravy,green beans

Thursday - mock beef a roni,garlic bread,cukes salad

Friday - Pizza,tossed salad

Saturday - chicken nuggets,mac & cheese,green beans

Tammy
The Happy Homemaker

Completing Him Challenge Wk 3

2010-06-28T10:08:00.000-04:00

Come and Join us over at Women Living Well!

This week challenge is: Print this list out and pray through this list daily. Also, do not forget to ask your husband each morning for any specific prayer requests he has for the day

She posted a list of things we could pray for our husbands. Here is the list.....

1. His Wife -that's a good place to start right? lol!

2. His Work

3. His Finances

4. His Sexuality

5. His Affections

6. His Temptations

7. His Mind

8. His Fears

9. His Purpose

10. His Choices

11. His Health

12. His Protection

13. His Trials

14. His Integrity

15. His Reputation

16. His Priorities

17. His Relationships

18. His Fatherhood

19. His Past

20. His Attitude

21. His Marriage

22. His Emotions

23. His Walk

24. His Talk

25. His Repentance

26. His Deliverance

27. His Obedience

28. His Self-Image

29. His Faith

30. His Future

She got this list from a book "The Power Of a Praying Wife" By Stormie Omartian

I try to pray for my husbad each day. I pray for his safety as he drives or carpools to and from work. I pray for his work. I pray for his health. I pray for his spiritual health. I pray for his finances and how I handle his hard earned money.

I cannot fast food because of health reasons but I can,and do fast things like soda,tea,the computer,ect. I put my husband on the front burner when praying because he is worth it. Our marriage is stronger because we pray for each other. We talk often about our goals in life,his goals become my goals and we work together to achieve them while being prayfully mindful of God's goals for us.

I strive to be the silent strong praying wife (and mom) that knows who to go to with all things (Jesus) and to pray for my husband in all aspects of his life.

Tammy
The Happy Homemaker

At My House

2010-06-24T08:15:00.000-04:00

It has been a crazy week at my house. Busy is the usual theme,running Brandon to pt now and football practice. Jason had to to go to our family doctor and now has to go for an mri on his right shoulder. He is afraid he may have a rotator cuff tear or some kind of chronic inflammation that has a really big medical term I can't remember right now. So all pt and training is off until further notice,doctor's orders.

Our neighbor was kind enough to cut along our property line but in the process didn't move our trash cans and hit them with his mower and busted up one. He didn't tell us and the wild life got into the can and tore into the trash,lovely,sigh. Now I have to replace 2 cans for the same reasons.

I made a vital mistake of allowing Carissa to play the game cube game sonic. Seems innocent enough until I noticed very ugly attributes coming out in her. TEMPER! She has a very bad one and at her young age can't control it very well. Well yesterday I allowed her to get on our lap top,remember I told you our desk top was having problems. She has been on it before without any problems but yesterday she got angry (there's that nasty temper again) and she hit the screen. She came running knowing she was in trouble. She smashed the screen when she hit it. Then to make matters worse she lied to me not once but twice,something I can't stand. She was grounded to her room yesterday no tv no nothing. Now she will not be allowed on the computers or game systems until I can see she can control herself. There is one thing (of many) I regret and that is bring those things into our home. I have seen tempers rise that I believe normally would not have. Long story short my youngest son Brandon had a dinosaur computer and hooked it up and boom internet. It is very slow,lol it can't keep up with my typing. I have pictures of Carissa's party Saturday I want to share but I don't know if this computer can handle it. Lord willing we will get another soon (very soon).

Until next time,
Tammy
The Happy Homemaking

Oily Skin,what I have found that works for me

2010-06-22T10:11:00.000-04:00

As I have gotten older I have developed oily skin and as a result I often have break outs. That's something I never had to deal with not even as a teenager,but alas it hit me. I tried many many products and nothing was working for me. I went for a facial as a Christmas gift from my husband and son's,she told me to use moisturizer even though I have a problem with oily skin. I tried and tried to find a moisturizer I could use and use as my daily regimen. I did find one that I love and use and it does great with my skin type but I still had problems with oiliness. Until I read on a blog about castile soap and oily skin, I thought to myself it's worth a try and I googled it to find out where on Earth I could find this stuff. I found it at Target and it was very reasonably priced,I think I got it for less than 10.00 for 16 oz.

I brought it home and washed my face with it. At first I thought it wasn't going to work for me,each day I got up and washed my face with it and each night before bed I washed my face with it. Still each day my face was oily, I was so frustrated and thought of making an appointment with our dermatologist. I didn't give up I kept at it and after a couple of weeks of washing my face with it I started noticing a change in the amount of oil on my face. Now after 3 weeks of using it I can really see a difference,my face is not only significantly less oily but it's also very,very soft something I didn't expect but love.

It only take a small drop in my hand to wash my face and neck. A little of this stuff goes a long way. It's thin so if you try this be careful with you use it. I have started using it as my shower wash as well. Two to four drops of water on my scrubby is plenty and the smell is awesome.

I use the Lavender scented castile soap one because I love lavender and two because of antibacterial agent of lavender it's a win,win for me and I hope it can be for you as well.

Tammy
The Happy Homemaker

Completing Him Challenge-week 2

2010-06-21T14:42:00.000-04:00

I am participating in the Completing Him Challenge that is being hosted by Courtney @ Women Living Well

This weeks challenge is simply to Remember. Remember the day you entered your sacred vows. If you are a blogger, please post pictures from that day and share your story. Then link up below and link your post to this post.

Sadly again for this weeks challenge I am unable to share any pictures from our wedding.

The memories from this wonderful day of my life are so sweet and so vivid. I think it's that way for most women or at least I hope it is.

I can remember waking up July 11,1992 scared and excited all at the same time. This was to be the day when I would become Mrs. John Channel,I can still feel the butterflies.

We had a rehearsal the night before and that night I didn't get much sleep at all. I kept thinking of how it was going to be to be a wife. I was eager to begin my life with my husband. To leave my home and family and go with him as the bible tells us.

The morning of my wedding I began getting ready and my mom did my hair. French twist bun,I loved it. My gown was an heirloom from my family. It was antique white lace with lace choker collar and pearl buttons all the way up the back. It was so pretty.

It seemed as though the day creeped along and flew by all at the same time. I couldn't wait to see my love!

We arrived at the church (almost late),I hurried into my dress and finally it was time for me to take my place beside my dad. We stood there arm in arm,both of us sad and happy at the same time. When the music started and we began our trip down the aisle I was a basket of nerves. Finally we made it to where my husband to be was waiting for me with a nervous smile on his face. I looked at him and smiled back at him.

I can remember when it was time for my dad to give me to my husband to be he held on just a moment longer. Finally after all was said and done I was his and he was mine (and it's still that way).

Our honeymoon was at a cabin on a lake. It was lovely,waking up first thing in the morning and sitting on the porch overlooking the lake. Loved it!

Coming home I was eager to begin my life as a homemaker and helper to my husband but I suppose that is for another post.

God Bless,
Tammy

MYO: Body Scrub

2010-06-16T12:42:00.000-04:00

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My husband loves my skin to be soft and smooth. He also loves for me to take care of myself. He knows that when I take care of myself I feel better. Doing these small things for myself they don't take long ,taking 5 minutes here or there to freshen up for my husband. To comb my hair and/or fix it the way he likes it. To make sure I smell good and well you get the idea.

The following is a recipe for a very nice body scrub that moisturizes and helps break down celulite that a friend of mine posted on her blog. Sadly she no longer has her site up and running so I am going to try to post it on here by memory.

Let me know if you try it and what you think of it.

**Cat if I mess this up please let me know!!!!**

What you need.....

leftover coffee grounds
olive oil
Epsom salts

Mix together and scrub your legs and anywhere else you want to get rid of nasty cellulite.

Note: Don't forget to wash the tub and/or shower really well after use,the oil makes it very slippery and can result in a fall or injury.

Tammy

MYO: Stain Lifter

2010-06-15T10:07:00.000-04:00

I make my own stain lifter for laundry stains and have for a few years now. It works great! As most of you know my boys are really into sports and I have taken out all sorts of stains from them playing. I simply spray it on and rub it in. Let it set then wash,stain gone.

What you'll need:

Tide detergent
vinegar
water
spray bottle ( I use an old stain lifter bottle I had here)

1/2 C tide,2 C vinegar and fill the rest of the way with water. Add lid and shake well.
That's it!

You'll need to shake it from time to time to mix the detergent in. One small bottle of tide last me for a very long time doing this. Wait until you have a coupon and it's on sale to get it,that way your not spending much at all to purchase it.

Also I keep an old toothbrush to scrub the stain lifter into the stain. Works great. You scrub in the direction of the fabric. Just don't do this on delegates or you can damage it.

Tammy

Completing Him Challenge Week 1

2010-06-14T10:10:00.000-04:00

I am participating in the Completing Him Challenge being hosted by Courtney @ Women Living Well a blog I spoke about a couple of times.

This weeks challenge is....Post Pictures from your dating days (or tell us all about it!). Think about one thing you used to do or have as a couple that you have lost in the shuffle of life. How can you regain it?

Sadly I have only one picture of us during our dating year and it was at my prom and I cannot scan it to my computer as my desk top is well broken. : ( But no need to fuss about that I can talk about it all with a smile on my face and in my heart. : )

I was 16 years old when I met my wonderful husband. We met while working at the local McDonald's. He was in school and I was still in high school. We met at the tail end of the first semester of my Jr. year. I can remember seeing him for the first time and thinking "wow,he's so cute,I wonder what his name is" We began talking and before I knew we were dating.

One of our first dates was him going to church with me. My dad was a pastor and I had to take him to church,house rules. : ) He did great,he didn't share the same faith as I did and my faith was so drastically different from his. I thought for sure this was going to be it,I would never hear from this guy again. He is going to take off running so fast he will leave skid marks. Well I don't think I have to tell you but I will : ). He didn't run off never to call me again,he stuck around.

We went on several dates together,at first we had to take my brother with us,house rules. He came over for dinner several times so my parents could get to know him. We would talk on the telephone for hours about everything and nothing at all. We would take walks together,hand in hand talking about everything and nothing.

When we weren't together,I missed him terribly and couldn't wait to see him again. Between our visits we would talk on the phone with each other. He was quickly filling my heart with love and a peace that this is what is right. He was a solid man even then,he was sweet and loving. He became the love of my life,my soul mate and my best friend.

This week I will focus on writing him little love notes. I use to do this all the time when we were dating. I would even use sticky notes and write a simple I Love You on it and put it on his steering wheel of his car. When he got off work he would climb in and see my little love not to him. Letting him know my feelings for him and that he was always on my mind.

Tammy

A Stay At Home Daughter and Give Away

2010-06-11T18:18:00.000-04:00

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The mental image of “stay-at-home daughters” is usually of a girl . . .

Who is at home twiddling her thumbs while waiting, just waiting, for her Prince Charming to come and sweep her off her feet. She has nothing better to do than clean the house. Oh, and she can cook, too. What in the world does she do with all that free time? I mean really, all she’s capable of doing now is just waiting for her Prince Charming . . . right?

There’s a lot more to being a stay-at-home daughter than just cooking and cleaning. But because that’s the only thing the world thinks we’re doing, no wonder we seem so strange.

The majority of the stay-at-home daughters that I have met are productive, creative, resourceful, and in many cases are entrepreneurs. They have a vision and a desire to glorify the Lord in the area where He has sovereignly placed them by serving in the home.

Because we are at home, we are able to spend time preparing for the future, as well as being productive daughters at home.

We are able to spend time studying, learning how to change a tire, helping young mothers with their workload, starting a business, writing books, making baskets, serving the elderly, fixing window screens, cooking, understanding nutrition, sharing with others what we have learned, practicing hospitality, assisting our mothers, doing secretary work for our fathers, encouraging our siblings, etc. – just to name a few.

(I’m not saying a daughter who is away from home most of the time cannot do these things, but I think it would be most taxing to juggle the above plus school, job, etc.)

Rather than wasting my time idly sitting by, I desire to be a productive daughter who is passionate about today and preparing for the future. No, it’s not always easy, but by God’s grace I can glorify Him through the work of my hands as I seek to continue to learn, grow, and serve!

Blessings,

Emily Rose @ Simply Vintagegirl

And now for the give-away!

So Much More was written by Anna Sofia & Elizabeth Botkin, fellow stay-at-home daughters. The Lord has used their book mightily and it has had an amazing impact on thousands of daughters around the world. So Much More is a wonderful book for daughters of all ages, as it gives biblical and practical advice on being daughters, serving our families, fighting sin, honoring our parents, and thriving in our God-given roles!

We are giving a copy of this wonderful book away to one of our readers! Also in the bundle will be two CD’s with audio from two important talks Anna Sofia & Elizabeth have given. The first is called Strength and Dignity for Daughters, which speaks on how a daughter can be a joy to her father and a tremendous help in his work, while looking to him as her hero.

The second is called, What Our Father Taught Us About Boys. In this talk they give practical advice on navigating the tricky waters of relationships with boys, and how these relationships, properly conducted, can be edifying and strengthening. This is one of my favorite talks by them, as they share about treating boys not as possible suitors (believe me, even three-year-olds think that way, because I was one of them!), but as brothers in Christ.

Leave a comment to enter the giveaway! (For extra entries you can post about this giveaway on a blog, twitter, facebook, etc., just be sure to leave a separate comment for each entry!) Give-away closes Wednesday, June 16th at 8pm EST.

Tammy

Depression?

2010-06-10T09:35:00.001-04:00

If anyone has dealt with depression at any time in their life or has had a family member walk through the waters of depression,you know how hard it can be. The things you once loved you no longer find joy in,you don't want to be around friends and family. You feel the desire to sleep more than normal for you. You lack energy,motivation,you cry all the time. You eat more than normal or not enough. You feel hopeless and angry. You just wish the world would leave you alone. Sound familiar?

How do I know so much about depression? I grew up with a woman that suffered and is suffering from clinical depression,anxiety,and slightly bi polar. My mother has suffered for years with these sometimes debilitating sicknesses. She has been on medications since well I honestly can't remember when she was first diagnosed. I have watched her suffer in ways I would never wish upon anyone. I have seen the effects that depression has on not just the person suffering from it but the whole family. It's so painful to watch someone you love sink into the darkness of depression.

I myself have had bouts of sadness. Recently while dealing with my dad. I refused to allow myself to grieve the loss of the relationship with my dad and the marriage that was lost between my parents. What instilled within was anger a lot of anger,frustration,and isolation. I prayed and prayed begging God to help me,I felt like I was losing my mind. The Lord spoke to my heart,I was not allowing myself to grieve. It was a loss,maybe not a death,well yes it was a death now that I think about. A death of a marriage and a death of a relationship between a daughter and her Earthly father. By not allowing myself to grieve this loss I was doing damage to myself,mind,body,spirit. So I began on the journey of letting go of the bitterness,to soften the hardening of my heart,with the help of Jesus I have made strives. When I feel the need to cry,I go off by myself and I cry. I journal my feelings and talk with my husband and of course talk with my Heavenly father every day throughout the day. It is not an easy walk but walking through the valley's of darkness and drudging through the mud of bitterness with Jesus at my side has been worth it. I know that when I get to the other end of this dark phase of my life I will be a stronger woman. I will still have a sore spot when it comes to my dad but it will get easier to deal with. No my depression is nothing like what my mom has dealt with so why did I include it with this article. There are many phases of depression not all are life long battles but all are hopeless without Jesus.

I recently found a blog that I really enjoy. It is called Women Living Well,I think the name initially caught my eye but once I started reading I started returning to read more. She has started a series on Depression on another blog Like A Warm Cup of Coffee. I am including in the article the first to parts of this series.....

Dealing with Depression - part 1

Dealing with Depression - part 2 - The physical side

Sometimes you just have to choose to be happy and fight for it.

The Happy Homemaker

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Breezy Brookshire's Story & Contest

2010-06-09T09:34:00.001-04:00

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In today’s culture, the homemaker is seen as unnecessary, uneducated, and unfulfilled. But as a counter-cultural daughter, I refuse to believe this lie and have chosen to stay at home and prepare for the wonderful life God has called me to.

The Proverbs 31 Woman is trust-worthy, diligent, creative, and intelligent—a sturdy woman, well-equipped and ready for whatever life brings her. Look at her description line by line and consider all that must have gone into her training. She has not wasted her mind or her talents. This is the kind of woman I desire to become.

In my journey toward becoming a Proverbs 31 woman as a stay-at-home daughter, the Lord has brought me many opportunities to learn different skills and ways to serve Him. Not only am I developing my domestic skills, but I am also furthering my education by studying a variety of subjects such as history, theology, music, and art. I am also an artist and have a home business. While I know I’ll always be learning about homemaking, my goal is to be as prepared as possible for my future role as a wife and mother.

Last year the Lord led my sister Emily Rose and I to create a series of paper dolls called Daughters of His Story. This has been a ministry opportunity for us to share with young girls the beauty of godly femininity and virtuous womanhood.

Here’s the giveaway part! We will be giving away a set of our three paper doll books. All you have to do to enter the give-away is leave a comment below. Everyone who tweets, facebooks, or posts this giveaway will receive extra entries (just leave a separate comment for each thing you do please). Giveaway ends June 12th at 8pm EST.

Noble Rose Press

The Happy Homemaker

Having difficulty

2010-06-09T07:38:00.001-04:00

I have been on a mission of sorts. I have been trying to get our grocery budget down to make more wiggle room in our overall budget. To be honest we are trying to put more money in savings and I knew the grocery budget was one area where I could help out with that goal. With that said I didn't want to just cut our grocery budget I wanted to improve our diet. Eat more whole foods and switch us to primarily a whole foods diet. I want to get to a point where I am cooking from scratch at least 99% of the time.

That is where my problem is. 1.I am having a hard time cutting our grocery budget buying more and more whole foods. 2. I am having a hard time making up my menus to be primarily whole foods. 3. I need help here in a major way,for some reason the whole soaking thing is not sinking in with me. I have tried it a couple of times and well it didn't turn out quite like I had hoped.

I do not and don't plan on giving up I am just at a loss of what to do next.

Any suggestion? Any tips? Any advise?

The Happy Homemaker

Completing Him Challenge!

2010-06-08T11:09:00.000-04:00

I am participating in the Completing Him Challenge over at Women Living Well blog. I am actually a day late : )

The Happy Homemaker

Future homemaker in training

2010-06-08T07:51:00.001-04:00

I spent the day yesterday with Carissa by my side,helping me around the house. She got so excited when I told her we were going to make some cookies. As you can tell by the picture she was all ready to go!

Add the butter now

This was her first time using the hand mixer! She is such a wonderful job!

Now time to slowly add the dry ingredients!

Stir and mix well. Then add the chocochips,she kept trying to sneak them. She loves chocolate!

All that work and her very first batch of chocochip cookie dough,yum!

she worked so patiently and dilegently!

First batch done! As it cools on the rack I know what is on her mind!

Yum! Warm ooey gooey chocolate chip cookies.

The Happy Homemaker

The Prayer Closet

2010-06-07T11:15:00.000-04:00

So many times in my life,when things get to heavy for me to carry. I go the Jesus,I cry out to my Heavenly father and he gives me peace.

There is so much stress in our lives. Taking care of our families and our homes,cooking nutritious meals for our family. So many times we take on all our duties and so much more from volunteering to help the needy,helping friends and family members,helping at our churches. Women have the need to care for others instilled in them from God and often times we feel the anguish others are going through because of this.

When going day to day in and the stresses of life get to heavy. I go off by myself so that I can be with Jesus,one on one time with my saviour. Sometimes I pray,sometimes I ready my bible and other times I just sit there feeling his presence and his love for me. When I return to my family or the job at hand I feel renewed and calm. I know I couldn't do what I do on a day to day basis with Jesus helping me. When I feel weak he is there to strengthen me.

Do you have a prayer closet or a special place you go to be alone with Jesus?

The Happy Homemaker

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I am linked up at: Women Living Well Blog

New articles added to my website!

2010-06-04T17:27:00.000-04:00

I have finally got around to adding some new articles to my site. Areas that have been updated are homemaking,In my kitchen,recipes,and dateship. I would love to have you stop by and visit for a while. Drop me a line my email address is on the site. I hope to hear from you.

Happy Homemaking Just click the link and it will take you right to it.

God Bless,
The Happy Homemaker

I'm Back!

2010-06-03T10:56:00.000-04:00

Good Thursday Everyone! I am finally back,I'm still praying about everything that has happened in my life lately but the Lord has instilled strength and some joy that would have never been possible if not for him. My mother is doing better,she still have some bad days but they are less than before. The Lord has strengthened her as well and she has a renewed faith that brings a smile to my heart. To see her talk about the future and moving on oh my that is like sweet music to my ears. She knows that she would not be where she is right now if it wasn't for the Lord! What an awesome God we serve! He hears me when I praise his name and loves me enough to sit beside me when I'm crying,what more could a girl ask for.

No my dad is still not talking to me nor will he even look at me. As a matter of fact he runs from me. That hurt me terribly but I know it has nothing to do with me personally,he has issues of his own. The devil has hold of him,I continue to pray for his soul and will not stop. I still love him and I'm trying very hard to let go of the anger I have toward him but it's hard and I'm human. In time maybe the wounds will not be so devastating but for now I can only do what I can,I'm not super woman.

Church is going so great! God is moving in a mighty mighty way. We are into the busy church season. We had a 3 day revival weekend before last. Brother Mark McCool preached,awesome is the word,the power of the Holy Spirit was powerful! Loved it! We traveled to Hunnington Wv for a youth rally,it was great! I love going to these type of services,to see all the young people there to worship the Lord is well more than words can express! This is the future of our faith and to see the mass numbers of young people earnestly seeking Jesus,filled with the Holy Ghost,I stand in awe of God's mighty power! We will have many of these type of services this summer and we will go to as many as we can.

Jason has been down this week the silly boy went swimming without sun block and now has sun poisoning. Yes he knows the risk he has taken and how dangerous the sun is,because I have been drilling him about how stupid this was since. He is in a lot of pain and blistered up really bad,he is in steroids for the inflammation and lots of TLC from momma for the pain and itching. Needless to say he will not do this again.

On the home front things are going well. We put a small garden in. I had lots and lots of help. My uncle rototilled it for us,Jason helped me fertilize it and John,Jason and Carissa helped me plant. So you could say it's been a family event. Brandon runs from garden work he hates it. We use to have a large garden each year but since my surgeries and problems from that we haven't had one. I have really missed it,it's relaxing to me to work in it almost therapeutic. I go out to it every morning to see the progress and each morning I am surprised at how fast things are progressing. I love it! I can't wait to be able to pick fresh the things I need to whip up a tasty garden salad!

I am about out of time so until next time,God Bless
The Happy Homemaker

I haven't been blogging lately

2010-05-26T17:16:00.002-04:00

I know I have been neglecting my blog. I have just been feeling so down lately,I'm sure it has to do a lot with my parents divorce. I'm still dealing with a mess from that. I just haven't been feeling much up for blogging lately. I know I should but I just haven't been.

I know I will get back into the swing of things soon so please stick with me while I pray and sort things out.

Thank You
The Happy Homemaker

Learning to be Content.....

2010-05-17T08:53:00.000-04:00

with what I have. I have had such an awful attitude about my home. If there is a reason to complain about something I can find it. Even the smallest things I have not been happy about it. I want so badly to have a bigger home and a nicer home and I pray about it often. But what the Lord told me was not something I wanted to hear. He said how can I bless you with more when you are not happy with what I have already given you. OUCH! Sometimes it stings when our Father puts us in our place. I have wasted so much time in complaining about what I don't like about this home that I totally miss the blessings the Lord has given us here in this home.

It's amazing how our discontent can rob us of true peace and happiness,even in the most meager of situations. Our home is not a big house by any means. We are all crowded in this humble home but there is a lot of love in these walls. I can point out the many areas of our home that need something done to them but instead of that I am focusing on the positive aspects of our home. Like,well the biggest thing would be that our home is paid off,that's right,no mortgage!

I have been upset that we cannot manage to get out of here and into a bigger home. But if we would have bought a bigger home,we would have lost it when my husband was laid off,since we stayed in our present home and we had no mortgage payment,we didn't have to worry about losing our home.God knew what was going to happen and looking back now I am very Thankful he watched out for us.

There are many (well most) rooms in our home that needs finishing touches or completely tour out and redone. This is an old mining home and it is very tiny. Someone added on an addition but didn't do it properly so we are dealing with that. So many stresses but many blessings to.

Our home is small yes it is, we are a close family partly of that fact. We had no place to go but to spend time together. The make up of our home can be fixed or changed but the memories these walls hold for us are priceless.

By not having a content heart with my current surroundings I have robbed myself and my husband of joy. That is a heavy burden on my heart. I never wanted to make my husband feel inadequate in any way shape or form. But by complaining so much I believe I have done just that. He would remark "what do you want me to do about it" I had no sly remark to that. I feel ashamed of myself for acting like a spoiled rotten kid.

So I tell you now yes we need a bigger home and if the Lord blesses us that way then that would be wonderful. But if he doesn't and we are meant to stay put then I'm OK with that as well.

Growing one lessen at a time,
The Happy Homemaker

StedFast At Home

2010-05-11T08:39:00.000-04:00

I wrote this article a few years back on my old blog.

When you read this term what comes to mind. Is it something bad in your views? Is it something that you relate to times that have long past when women stayed home and stood behind their man and kept the heads down and mouths shut? Or is it something else? I know for many of you what you believe this term means is all together something so very different than what it really does mean at heart.

I was like many of you, when I heard that, my alarms immediately went up. I thought, how dare you say that, I am no man's slave and I have a voice of my own that will freely use. I have a mind of my own and I'm a strong woman in mind,body and spirit. I am not a weak little woman doing what my man says. Does that pretty much sum up what you think when you hear stedfast at home or homekeeper,or even helpmeet?

I no longer see these phrases as I did, now let me tell you why. I began studying the bible alot more closer than I ever have in my life and began to talk to the Lord on a more personal level about what I felt my role was in my marriage and in the world in general. Now I believe the terms I have mentioned in the article as something to be proud of and cherish. I am no lower than my husband. I am not behind my husband. I am however his equal ,I work side by side with him to keep our home and life going. I have my duties and role in the house and so does he. He works outside the house and I stay home. I work hard and don't look down on my work as meager housework or that I'm just a homemaker or stay at home mom. I work very hard to make sure I keep a nice home for my family and that includes cooking good nutritious meals. On top of this I also keep our household costs as low and I can to save us as much money as I can in all categories of our lives. I hold my head high and I'm proud of who I am and what I do. I may not be out in the world working bringing home a paycheck but that does not make my role in my family any less important.

Here are a few bible versus that I have read that has helped me in ventures to be at peace with my choices in my life...

Psalm 128:3 Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house.

--What does this scripture mean,well to me is says To bare children be fruitful --

Proverbs 14:1 The wise woman builds her house but with her own hands the foolish one tears her down.

-- A wise woman works hard to keep her home where a foolish or lazy woman doesn't.--

Proverbs 31 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good,not harm,all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still dark:she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls. She considers a Field and buys it: out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously: her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she hold the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows,she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate,where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.: Charm is deceptive,and beauty is fleeting; but a woman that fears the Lord is to be praised. Give her the reward she has earned and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

--Whew that's a mouth full,LOL Meaning work hard for her home and family and don't shame yourself or your family. --

Titus 2 : 5 To be self-controlled and pure,to be busy at home,to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands,so that no one will malign the word of God.

--This is pretty self explained. To show self control and work hard in your home and not be lazy and to help your husband.--

I know that's alot to read but I truly feel as a woman it's worth a good study. As you read this see how it's relative to your own life.

The Happy Homemaker

Happy Mothers Day!

2010-05-09T08:07:00.000-04:00

I hope you all have a wonderful day filled with love and laughter! God Bless.

The Happy Homemaker

Catching up

2010-05-08T10:00:00.000-04:00

I normally don't blog on weekends (God and family time) but since I haven't blogged since Tuesday I thought it would be a good time to send in a post.

I have been so busy this week it's crazy. Since my mom is in the hospital I am taking care of her things as well as mine. Paying her bills,running errands for her and such. And visiting her every chance I get. She is doing much better but it's when she is released and she has to deal with everything once she's home. That will be the hardest part. I have told her I will help as much as I can and if she needs to she can stay with us for a few days. She said OK but I know my mom and she will want to be in her own home,which I don't blame her. She has a lot of things to do at her house,things to go through,etc. I have told her I will gladly help her,hopefully she will accept my offer to help.

The sun has finally made it's way over the hills and it's filling this little valley up with light and warmth! Something much needed after last nights thunderstorms,they brought them a chill to the air. My uncle is coming over today to till our little garden. I can't wait to get started,I enjoy gardening of all kinds to much. I haven't been able to do any gardening since my surgeries and I miss it. My oldest son Jason has offered to help me and I gladly accepted. I am not sure how much I can do but I am eager to find out.

On the home front well I am officially behind in laundry. I think I may be able to hang some out to dry if it's not going to rain any more. The floors all need to be mopped. And I am going to be going through everything in the master bedroom. I am trying to simplify our lives more. And as a part of that getting rid of things we don't need or use. It's just stuff that is taking up precious space in our tiny humble home.

I have been asking the Lord to help me with our budget. John has a great job but he is at the lowest pay in the plant for the next 16 months. Then he gets bumped up to regular pay. But in the mean time we are living off of a lower pay and I'm OK with that. But it's taking some getting use to. I have asked the Lord to help me as I open my mind to new ideas and to give me an understanding of money that I never had. I am good at budgeting but there's always room to improve.

One area I am extremely interested in and have always been and that is in the kitchen. Cooking more and more from scratch and learning about soaking grains. I would love to get our grocery spending cut by 30 dollars a week. With some learning and determination I think I can do it.

The Happy Homemaker

The Prayer Journal

2010-05-04T08:53:00.000-04:00

I started a prayer journal almost a year ago when all this mess started with my dad. I felt so angry and bitter and anxious,my son Jason advised to maybe start writing down my feeling in a journal. I thought it was worth a shot. So I grabbed a notebook,nothing fansy just a plain ordinary notebook,opened it up,put the date on the top of the page and then started writing. I didn't realize the power of doing this and how theraputic it can be. I also did realize that while writing day by day I started writing to Jesus. Talking to him about all that I was feeling,what was on my mind,prayers for others,ect. WOW! Was that powerful. I can't explain how my what has since evolved into a prayer journal has effected my life.

Life throws some really rotten things at us and it's not good to hold those in. By writing them down and giving them to God I have been able to deal much better with my daily stresses and also able to pour my heart out to the Lord on paper. My hopes for the future,asking to be used by the Lord,my prayers for my children and my fears. All this is just a small part of my prayer journal. From silly things to overwhelming life stopping events all of it goes in there,because Jesus is not just my saviour but he's my friend to. When I'm writing in my prayer journal I am not just writing to my saviour,my father but my friend. Give it try,you may be surprised where it takes you in your relationship with Jesus Christ.

The Happy Homemaker

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Menu Plan Monday

2010-05-03T08:43:00.000-04:00

Sunday was hot dogs,french fries and cucumber salad

Monday - Pork chops,stuff,corn,and one other vegetable

Tuesday - chicken fried rice,garlic bread,fresh fruit

Wednesday - Chicken nuggets,noodles,applesauce

Thursday - bbq chicken,mac & cheese,fresh fruit,cucumber salad

Friday - smoked sausage,rice,carrots,peas

Saturday - Pepperoni rolls,chips,fresh fruit

What's on your menu this week?

The Happy Homemaker

Feminine Friday

2010-04-30T10:25:00.002-04:00

What a nice morning so I decided to take my Feminine Friday out on our deck. My son Brandon took the picture for me.

White top and denim skirt,black head band and shoes. I have to go to court today with my mom so I'm not feeling very cheerful.

The Happy Homemaker

Menu making made simple

2010-04-29T16:27:00.000-04:00

Have you ever sat down to make your menu and just couldn't get it all together to finish it up. You start out ok and then before you know you have no idea what to put down to finish it up. That's how it has been for me and it's very frustrating,especially when you have a million other things to do like laundry,schooling,reading aloud to your children,believe me I have been there done that. There's nothing more frustrating to me then to sit down to a task that should take only a short amount of time to complete and it lingers on and on because I am stumped. Oh how I hate that!

One day I came up with the idea that has saved me loads of time when it comes to making my menu(s). I got out a notebook and started writing down meal ideas. But then I went more detailed,I labeled one page chicken,the other beef,then pork,and so on. I started 1. and put a complete meal idea in that slot. For example looking over at my page right now for pork in slot number one is

1. grilled seasoned pork chops,loaded bake potatoes and corn on the cob.
2.creamy pork chops,mash potatoes,green beans.

and so on and so on. When I find a new recipe my family enjoys I simply add it to the designated page.

When it comes time for me to make my menu,I take out my pages of meal ideas with me (this would fit nicely in the household notebook) and use that as a guide for ideas. I can't tell you how much time and frustration this has taken off my shoulders and I can also use this as a way to not forget a meal that my family really enjoyed but that I hadn't made in a while. Yes I'm forgetful at times! LOL By investing a little time on these pages it has saved me so much time now. They are evolving lists what works stays and what doesn't goes. I love it and I hope if you decide to try it you love it as much as I do.

The Happy Homemaker

Beef a roni

2010-04-28T07:30:00.000-04:00

I had origonally gotten this recipe from my friend Crystal over at www.thefamilyhomestead.com but took a few ingredients out because it was to overwhelming and my family likes our version much better.

1 lb ground beef or turkey or eve Italian sausage (I use a bit more than a pound at times)
1/2 cup chopped onions (I have to finely chop these or my daughter will pick out each and ever one)
1 1/2 cup uncooked elbow macaroni

Liquid mixture:
1/2 cup sour cream (sour cream can be made homemade very easily)
2 tsp worcestershire sauce
8 oz tomato sauce (either 1 can or homemade)
4 cups beef broth (the best beef broth is saved from the juices off my crockpot roast beef,yum)
sea salt,pepper

Mix this up in a mixing bowl and set it aside for now.

Brown the ground beef and onions in a pan,drain and return to a large cooking pot,layer the macaroni over the beef. Get the liquid mixture and pour it over the noodles and beef. But do not stir it,turn on the heat and let it come to a boil,then cover it. Turn down the heat and simmer on low for about 30 minutes.

That's it! Quick and simple and yummy!

I have forgotten to layer it and not stir it before and even forgotten to not cook the noodles first and it turned out ok not as good as it would have if I would have followed the instructions but hey it's all good. And there are rarely leftovers of this dish when I make it or is there is they are quickly eaten up the next day. My picky eater (Carissa) even likes this dish.

We usually have this with a big tossed salad and some cut up fruit and garlic bread. It's a very filling meal and it's not to costly a winner in my book.

The Happy Homemaker

At my house

2010-04-27T08:55:00.003-04:00

Yesterday was a rainy day so no time outside,well I could have made it to the front porch but didn't seem to get there. My oldest son Jason had a bit of a stomach bug,nothing big just a stomach ache,but he did help me. He bathed our dog Princess,she is old and well getting that old dog smell some dogs get,so we have to bath her more often. She hates but it's a necessary evil.

Monday's are always catch up for me since we rest on Sunday,I do minimal work. I usually have tons of laundry to get caught up. To be honest I have still to understand how this happens. I try to make sure all laundry is done Saturday,so with that we should only have the clothes for Saturday and Sunday. But come Monday morning I am bombarded with huge heavy loads and I am in the laundry room all day,or at least it feels that way. When I am able to hang some laundry out to dry I get much more done,but there are times when that is impossible for me.

Monday is the day I deep clean the bathroom (s),so my deep cleaning is fairly fast and thank God it's that way with all the catch up I have.

Carissa is doing so well in school,she is now doing long addition and subtraction and cursive writing. She is so proud of herself when she gets a letter right. Her whole face just lights up! I love it!

I would love to say that my day was so great but I am still dealing with an extraordinary about of pain. A little history,you all know that I have had 2 spinal surgeries last year. And my awesome out of this world Jesus healed me of scar tissue that was wrapped (ing) around my spine and the muscles,tissue,and nerves in my back. I couldn't move without severe pain that would make me scream out.

I am so grateful my Lord healed me of something the doctors could do nothing but treat the symptoms of. He is so awesome like that!!! I was so happy to be able to rejoice and praise and dance for the Lord like I was never able to before. I felt so free to worship him without the pain I had before!

Then all of a sudden the muscles in between my shoulder blades started to spasm without warning or cause. I was still seeing the pain specialist,it was suppose to be my last appointment with him because I was healed. I told him what was going on and he put me on strong muscle relaxers and some pain medication. He put me in outpatient and did some target injections directly into the knotted up muscles. That worked great for about 8 hours then I felt them spasming again.

Since then the spasms have gotten worse,they are in my neck,shoulders and the muscles that lay on top of my ribs (those are extremely painful). Most of my days are spent sitting in our recliner with a large heating pad set on the highest setting on my back and still it's severely painful. I do still clean my house as I refuse to be defeated by this. I know the Lord can and will heal me in his time. There has to be a reason I am going through this,maybe it's the reach someone to witness to that I would otherwise not be able to reach, I don't know but he knows. The pain was so bad yesterday evening that it actually made my spine hurt,it took all I had in me not to pull my hair out. We are in limbo right now as my husband's benefits don't kick in until June 23,talk about a long wait when your in severe pain on a daily basis. I'm not asking for pity I know I will be healed one day. I just get so tired of living this way. I get weak sometimes,especially in the evenings like last night,then I look back at how far God has brought me and I know he still has me in his hands I just need to trust in him and I will make it through this.

The Happy Homemaker

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Dinner Menu 4/26 - 5/1

2010-04-26T10:06:00.000-04:00

Monday - Rosted Chicken,mash potatoes,homemade gravy,cucumber salad

Tuesday - Soup Beans (using ham bone from last weeks ham dinner),from scratch cornbread,fruit

Wednesday - chicken nuggets,mac & cheese,corn on the cob

Thursday - Bible study night - crockpot roast beef,mash potatoes,homemade gravy,corn,peas and homemade rolls

Friday - Spaghetti,garlic bread,salad

Saturday - Beans n franks,mac & cheese,fried potatoes,apple sauce

What's on your menu this week?

The Happy Homemaker

Feminine Friday

2010-04-23T11:30:00.000-04:00

My daughter took this picture of me for Feminine Friday!!!! Nice little photographer isn't she! My hair is still wet so please exuse the craziness of it. The skirt is one that I couldn't wear for a long time now it fits and I have plenty of room in it!!!!! YIPEEE! We are getting ready for weekly grocery trip.

I have to tell you the story of the blankets on the doorway. That is the doorway into our masterbedroom,my husband works midnights at a pharmaceutical plant and there were bits of light that came through any cracks in the door. I enjoy a lot of natural light in my home and that ran right into our master bedroom so to keep that from keeping him away I put these blankets around the door for him. I sacrifice a pretty wall for my honey. : )

My daughter Carissa didn't want to be left out of the fun!

Well off to the store we go,after I fix my hair of course. LOL

The Happy Homemaker

Our Daily Bead

2010-04-22T12:09:00.000-04:00

Thou....savest by thy right hand them which put their trust in thee. -- Psalm 17:7

The Happy Homemaker

Homemade Buttermilk

2010-04-22T07:12:00.004-04:00

I have been making my own buttermilk for about a year now maybe a little longer. I can tell you the quality of homemade buttermilk far surpasses anything you can buy at the grocery store.

Buttermilk is very easy to make. It takes bit of time to set but it's well worth it in my honest opinion.

I purchased buttermilk starters from here: http://www.leeners.com/ are a great company to work with.

You will need:

1 qrt canning jar with lid and ring

buttermilk starter

whole milk

thermometer

making my own buttermilk....

Fill at 1 quart canning jar with whole milk,I then pour that into a saucepan and warm it to 72 degrees. Then pour the warmed milk back into my canning jar and add one packet of buttermilk starter. Seal the jar by putting a canning lid and ring on it and tighten it. Give it a good shake and then set it on your stove top for 12 to 24 hours.

I set it on my stove top to keep the milk at 72 degrees or as close as I can to that. If it doesn't the milk won't set. I can tell you that mine sets closer to 12 hours than 24.

You will notice it's done when the milk is nice and thick. I use alot of buttermilk in my baking and have found homemade buttermilk is far better than store bought.

To make more simply take 3 tablespoons of my homemade buttermilk and use that as my starter instead of the packet of starter.

The Happy Homemaker

Our Daily Bread

2010-04-21T15:15:00.000-04:00

If two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven --Mathew 18:19

The Happy Homemaker

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New Movie from the creators of FireProof!

2010-04-21T07:00:00.001-04:00

Four men, one calling:

To serve and protect ...

The next movie from the creators of FIREPROOF is moving forward in anticipation of production beginning in the spring of 2010. Sherwood Pictures continues its commitment to life-changing and life-affirming movies.

Courageous ... honor begins at home!

I am excited about the newest movie from Sherwood Babtist Church. They also created Flywheel,Facing the Giants and Fireproof.

The Happy Homemaker

My Weight Loss Journey

2010-04-20T07:17:00.003-04:00

I began my weight loss journey a few months back. Not for vanity sake but for my health. I have had 2 spinal surgeries in 2009 and as a result of my condition many of the medicines the doctors prescribed for me before my first surgery caused weight gain,couple that with the innability to excercise and you have weight gain. I was so unhappy with my body and felt my health was at risk. I had always been a very active person and never had much of a problem with my weight until my problem arose. So after the second surgery I was prescribed yet more medication that caused weight gain,but I was determined to take control of my body and my health once again. That's when I started on my journey,a journey of reclaiming my health,a journey of being accepting of my body but knowing I was with the knowledge to know how to change it. It has not been easy due to the medications I am on and have to be on due to nerve damage and other things in my back and legs. Without them I would be in severe pain. So that made my weight loss hard at times. I would go one week and lose 2 pounds just to get on the scales the next week and gain 1. It was so depressing knowing that you are doing what you are suppose to do and not seeing results. But I didn't give up,I kept going and the next week I would lose 1/2 pound. Not what I would like to see but small victories are awesome to. Now as of today I have lost a total of 30 pounds. I am not finished by any means,my doctor and I had a talk about the ideal weight for my body type and I will not stop until I am there within 5 pound either way,but hopefully less. : )

The Happy Homemaker

Menu Plan Monday

2010-04-19T08:34:00.000-04:00

Since yesterday was our day of rest,I post my menu on Monday of each week or at least most weeks.

Monday - Grilled marinated chicken breast,cheesy mash potatoes (will share the recipe later),tossed salad

Tuesday - Baked brown sugar baked ham,au gratin potatoes,green beans

Wednesday - am in the pm - buttermilk pancakes,eggs,sliced peaches

Thursday - leftover ham slices,mac & cheese,corn on the cob

Friday - MeatLoaf,mash potatoes,gravy,green beans,peas

Saturday - mock beef a roni (will share the recipe later) garlic bread,cucumber salad

leftovers (if there are any) are set out with dinner. Most of the time they are eaten up before dinner ever gets here. LOL Growing boys!

The Happy Homemaker

Feminine Friday

2010-04-16T15:09:00.000-04:00

This is my first time posting to Feminine Friday. The picture below was taken by my dear wonderful sweet husband after a day out with my daughter grocery shopping. Soo I was a bit tired! Nothing fansy just a denim skirt and tshirt.

The Happy Homemaker

Our recent Bible study

2010-04-14T11:58:00.000-04:00

This week we have been doing an extensive study on what God's word says about dating. This has been a very interesting study and my sons have had many questions. When we talk about dating as Christians,we are not talking about the kind of "dating" that the world promotes. What we are talking about is more like courting than dating. It is in the bible to do this not to play the feild until one sticks. Not to go from one boy/girl to another. To get involved with someone to early and/or moving into intimate phases of a relationship that should be kept for marriage while unmarried or even worse a teenager.

God tells us in his word to pray and find a wife/husband. Not to maybe sometimes pray when the mood hits me or maybe not pray at all or promise to pray and wait for God's choice for you but then run with your flesh as soon as someone comes along that tickles your fancy. The earliest example that the bible gives us on courting is in Genesis 2:18 It is not good that the man should be alone;I will make a helpmeet for him. The Lord didn't tell Adam hey go play the feild and be full of lust of the flesh and act on it. He made him a helpmeet from Adam's own rib. She was perfect for Adam because Eve was chosen by God for Adam. This is still true today,how do I know. Well first off the bible tell us God is the same yesterday today and forever. So if he has not changed why would you think that his views on the proper way to find your future husband/wife would change. Why do you think he is going to turn his head and not look while you do things that you know you should not do as Christian young men/women.Young people today are making horriable mistakes by giving of themselves to whomever they feel an attraction to for the moment. How sad is it that our sons and daughter believe this is just how they are suppose to do things. When Jesus himself has made someone just for them and when they don't trust in him to bring he/she into their lives when the time is right,well why should he reward the weak in faith with a prize of the RIGHT man/woman.

God made marraige to protect us. God made marriage to keep us from fornication with the opposite sex. Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable in all,and the bed undefiled:but whoremonger and adulterers God will judge. In other words going from boy/girl to boy/girl and doing things you know is meant for marriage is a sin we all know it. But the world wants our young people and parents to believe this is normal. Noone courts anymore dating is the norm. How is someone suppose to find a wife/husband if they don't date around? How about praying?! God has a mate for our sons and daughters if only they show obediance to him and us (the parents) and be faithful. Keep themselves pure for their future husband/wife.

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that the worlds way of finding a husbadn/wife is not working it's a very broken system. Based on feelings and attractions that are led by the flesh not the spirit are leading our young people into very dark places. Divorce rates in America are rediculous. According to divorce rate.org the first marriage that ends in divorce in America in 2010 is 41%,wow and we are only 4 months into the year. But if a second marriage is in the work the rate goes up to 60% and a thirld 73%. I think we can see it's not working. Wanting to have a husband/wife is natural but going with the world and following your flesh is very much the wrong way to do it in my honest opinion,and from what I read daily and see on the news I think I'm right for believing this way.

There is a way to insure you are going to have the right person the first time. Pray,parents pray for your son/daughter to, for their future husband/wife. Children listen to the widom of your parents. Jesus tells us he is the way the truth and the light,why on Earth do you think he would ever steer us wrong. Have faith he will reward you with a happy lasting marriage.

The Happy Homemaker

dinner menu plan 4/12 - 4/18

2010-04-12T10:07:00.000-04:00

Monday - Beef roast,mash potatoes,gravy (using beef drippings),buttered corn

Tuesday-Open faced roast beef sandwiches,leftovers,tossed salad

Wednesday - Fried Rice,homemade garlic rolls

Thursday - Roasted chicked,cheesy potatoes,green beans

Friday - BLT's French fries,corn on the cob

Saturday - Homemade pizza and salad

Sunday - Chicken n gravy,buttermilk biscuits,rice,baby carrots

It's been a hard month,we have gone 3 weeks with no pay. So my menus have been what I have had stocked up in our freezers,fridge,and pantry. Thank God I stock up on food. We have only needed to get very few items from the store this month.This Friday will be my first real grocery shopping trip in almost a month.

The Happy Homemaker

It's Friday!

2010-04-09T10:58:00.000-04:00

The above picture was taken out of our picture window in our living room. We thought this was the prettiest little bird and it kept coming by to visit with us most every day. Even though it had secret motives,he was stealing cat food from the cats bowl on the porch. : ) I wish I would have thought to snap one of it stealing the cat food. lol

I woke up this morning so disappointed. I started some buttermilk yesterday just like I have countless times before and it didn't turn out right.It was not thick and smooth like it normally is it had chunked up like milk does when it spoils. I can't think of anything that I did different except I used 2 % milk when I usually use Whole milk. I honestly didn't think that would make that much of a difference but I suppose I was wrong. Now I have to wait until I go to the store next week to get some more whole milk. : (

I have gotten away from so many of the things that I firmly believe in. I really didn't mean to,I suppose it was because I have been dealing with so much with my parents getting a divorce after 37 years,it has really hurt in ways I never thought it would. I haven't baked in what seems like ages,I feel like I have been going through the motions of keeping home but not feeling the fullfillment I usually do. Even my oldest son Jason told me he could tell I was sad. Yes I am I am grieving the loss of a once happy marriage and the fall of a good Christian man. I am not depressed but I am mourning and will mourn for some time to come. But I am starting to want to do a lot of the things I use to do. Like..... make my cleaning products,bake bread,quick breads,deserts,keep my home as clean and clutter free as I can. Teach my daughter how to keep a home,I was before all this doing Helpmeet lessons with her. Little things because she is still young but it's still important to start teaching young so they see the importance of our role in the family. She has learned how to sort laundry,load it in the washer,put the detergent in and start it. She has learned how to unload the dishwasher and put away the dishes as well as load them. She has learned how to clean the bathroom and make her bed properly. She was learning how to do some cooking,little things like she helped me make biscuits for dinners,she would stir something in the pot,she would knead bread for me and she helped me cook by adding ingredients for me. Then when all this happened it crushed me so badly I dropped it all and I'm ashamed to admit that but it's true. The good thing is that I see all I have lapsed in and felt the urge to pick it all up again and begin my life as it has been. God is so good to us when we are down he is there to comfort us and when he knows we need to push to get up again he does that. I am so greatful to have a father that loves me that much.

The plan for today is to cut up 1 - 2 cups of leftover turkey from last nights dinner and use it in the turkey n gravy for tonight. The rest I will slice up thin for sandwiches.I made up a delicious broth for the gravy using the turky carcass and herbs. I would like to make some cookies to it's been a while since I have done that,it would be nice to fill the house with the aroma of sweet yummy chewy homemade cookies. Brandon my youngest son wants me to make a pumpkin pie. Also I have laundry,I try to make sure all my laundry is washed up,Sunday is God's day and work is not a part of it. The cars need cleaned and the laundry room needs a good wipping down. Friday cleaning normally doesn't take that long so it frees up more time for special things like baking or a craft project or just some fun family time. Then later tonight we are attending a 2 day seminar at our church called Soul Winning, preached by Brother Sutton,I have never had the pleasure to hear him preach and I'm really looking forward to it.

I hope you have a wonderful weekend whereever you may be. May God bless you and your family.

Until Monday,

The Happy Homemaker

From sun to rain!

2010-04-08T17:58:00.000-04:00

The day started out so nice and warm and ended up with a nice little thunderstorm that has cooled things down. It's rather chilly out now and still raining,I know we need the rain but boy do I love sunny days. There's just something about a sunny day that makes you feel better.

Tonight it's just 3 for dinner,my sons are staying over a friends houses. And on all nights when I'm making a big dinner,that's my luck. LOL

The day has gone by pretty slow pace,nothing really happening. I am still doing laundry because my oldest Jason had kitchen duty last night and forgot to run the dishwasher. So I had to run it this morning putting me behind all day. I hate when that happens. But all in all it was a rather relaxing day.

I am starting to get use to John being back to work and working night shift. I have the kids all organized on what they can and cannot do while daddy is sleeping. It's when it's almost time for him to get up I get all anxious only because I miss him so much and can't wait to spend some time with him. We are blessed that God brought him where he is right now but when your use to your best friend being right there and then he's not you really do miss him at least I do.

Every morning we read as a family the proverb that corresponds with the day of the month,today we ready chapter 8. We discuss it and then we start our day with prayer. I find it helps my whole day go better when I put Jesus first I start on the right foot so to speak. If something happens and I can't don't get to pray in the morning and read the bible I feel off all day long.

Well enough of my rambling I have to and finish dinner.

The Happy Homemaker

Wednesday at our house

2010-04-07T11:40:00.000-04:00

What a wonderful sunny morning,God has given us in NCWV. I have hung out some laundry and I'm loving it. Yesterday I hung some jeans on the first line,I knew I was counting my days when the line retired. Yesterday evening while I was cooking dinner,the line gave way and the jeans came tumbling down. At least they were all dry before it fell. LOL

I am still getting use to my husbands night schedule. Having him home for almost a year and then poof back to work takes some adjusting to say the least.

What I wanted to talk about today is parenting.

I am a strict mom,we have rules in our home and we expect the kids to follow them. When they don't they get punished. It's that simple. In the world there are laws that we all must follow if we don't we get punished. So why teach our children from a young age that the Rules,don't reply to them,they can do what ever they choose to do and they will not be punished for it. This type of thinking results in carelessness and often times trouble with the law later on in life. When your trying to raise good christian men and young lady then rules go with it. Teachings on God's ways and being good parents go hand in hand. God doesn't want us to let our kids have a freeforall without any consequences,that's not how life is.

When you set rules for you kids and teach them God's ways and then the devil brings someone into their lives that try to take them from the path you have them on. If you have done all you can do and have open communication with your child he/she will Lord willing come to you and talk with you about the problems he/she is having. And together you can talk and pray about it. This would be a great time to talk to your son/daughter about God's plan for their life. About the love of God and how much he desires only the best for him/her.

Parenting is hard work,it takes a lot of patience,love and understanding. As our children grow we take on new phases in their lives. Until finally we are parents that have raised them to be upstanding Christian men/women in the community and we take on the realm of friend. We never stop worrying as moms and probably as dads to but if we know they are on the right path and have God on their side our worry is lessened.

Happy Homemaking

Lessons Learned

2010-04-06T14:04:00.000-04:00

I have been spending a lot of time talking with my children about the importance of living below your means. Not only do we talk with them about it but we also try to live be example. I have so many regrets of how we used our money in the past and we are still cleaning up the mess from living that way. If only we knew then what we know now,but could of,should of and would of won't do us any good now. All we can do is pick up and keep moving forward taking what we have learned and instilling it in our hearts and minds. To make it a part of our lives.

Yesterday while with my youngest son Brandon,I asked him,"What do you think it means to live below your means,what are the steps to insure you are doing so?" His answer was very good! He said " you don't go into debt,no loans and no credit cards. I mean it's stupid to get a car loan and it loses value as soon as you drive it off the lot." He said " it's best to save up and buy things straight out then you own it and are not paying more than it's worth buy getting a loan, the same is right about credit cards they make no sense,when you charge things and they are used up and you are still paying on them. How stupid is that! "

Yes he is a very smart boy. He also mention putting God first forever and always. And saving a portion of your income without fail.
What he didn't mention and it's probably because I haven't talked about it as often or gone into any sort of detail about it. That is taking care of all you have to make it last as long as it can.

1. give to God
2. save a portion of your income
3.no debt unless it's a mortgage
4.use up what you have before buying new
5. buy things used or on sale or clearance always try your hardest to get the best price on all things
6. use cash or debit,tracking every penny that comes in and out of your home
7. take care of what you have and make it last as long as you can saving you even more money

my seven rules of living below your means

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Happy Homemaking

Menu Monday

2010-04-05T14:22:00.000-04:00

I am using what I have on hand here as much as I can. Of course using the leftover ham from Easter dinner in a couple of meals. Our freezers and pantry are well stocked Thank God! The budget is very very tight for the next couple of weeks. Until John get his first pay from his new job : )

Monday- leftovers,mac & cheese

Tuesday - soup beans,corn bread,sliced oranges

Wednesday - Pepperoni rolls w/ cheese,french fries,cucumber salad

Thursday - chili,cornbread,tossed salad

Friday - beans N franks,mac&cheese,baby carrots

Saturday - Roasted turkey beast,mash potatoes,gravy,corn on the cob

Sunday - Turkey N gravy,biscuits,leftovers

With each meal I warm up leftover as well and set them all out buffet style.

Happy Homemaking

Happy Easter!

2010-04-04T06:48:00.000-04:00

Let us celebrate this blessed day! Thank Jesus for giving his life so we may live and be forgiven. Let us rejoice that he rose on the 3rd day. Forever to our Father in Heaven!

Happy Homemaking

What we learned while being laid off

2010-04-01T10:08:00.000-04:00

When my husband was laid off from his job last April,when I first found out this was going to happen. I had a panic session,I went out onto our deck and prayed and cried out to God,asking him to not let this happen to us. I was so afraid of what would happen to our family. But within a couple of weeks he was laid off.

The first thing we did was get our budget out and start cutting back. We cut cable,phone,heating bill and electricity. The bills took a little time but cutting the cable bill and phone took a phone call. We got our expenses down as low as we could.

We had only one problem. We were still in debt! We had a car payment (stupid debt) and credit cards (very stupid debt). That's where my panic came in.

We signed up for help that we needed only. We worked and pushed through the rest. We had a rough time and had some help from our church to get us through.But we made it.

We stayed faithful to the Lord. I knew he had a plan for us and I kept telling anyone and everyone I could that it was all going to work out because we are in God's hands and he was going to take care of us. And oh how he did.

We managed to keep our utilities low and I am still going to do this even though he is working now. We paid off 2 of our credit cards and made big payments to the other 2 and on our car loan. We are now ahead on the car loan and taking big chunks out of our remaining 2 credit cards.

You know God's not going to take you through something like this without teaching you a valuable lesson. Maybe it's something you knew already but was just to stubborn to acknowledge it or do what needed to be done to put it to work.

We learned it is vitally important to live below your means. It's not demeaning to live this way,in fact it's refreshing. Give your tithes to the Lord and remain faithful to him. And it's so important to save,you must save a portion of your income no matter what. Also up there as equally important is to get out and stay out of debt. We are working our way out of debt and are going to try to not accummulate any more stupid debt. The only debt we will aquire is a house. But that is more of an investment rather than just debt. We can do things to increase it's value making it an investment. With credit card debt and auto loans all that is done is paying and paying and paying some more,nothing you can do with this debt can make it into an investment. Its just wise to stear away from that kind of debt all together if at all possible.

We have a new understanding for money and debt and know how God intended for us to live. Instead of how we ended up living. It's freeing to give up what you really don't need,to imbrace the freedom of saving,paying of debt (dreaming of the day when it's all paid off) investing in your future and living below your means. I am loving our new life,I no longer feel the pressure of needing to get the best of things,I look at what I have now and think,this will do until we can SAVE up the money to get something else. We are now looking at buying used over buyng new. Good quality used furniture and things like that can last a very long time and cost much less than buying new. Our vehicles we are aiming to save for future cars not going out and getting into debt for one.

We are wiser and more equipt that before and we have the Lord to thank for teaching us the lessons that we would have never learned had my husband not been laid off. Sometimes we just don't understand the Lords plan for our lives but once he lays it out for you and your start taking the faith walk toward him he will bless your life like you would never be able to imagine. Give to God and he will give to you!

Happy Homemaking

Sunny Wednesday~update

2010-03-31T11:06:00.001-04:00

There are so many things in my life that I have taken for granted. So many people that I knew for sure would never abandon me. Things and people I counted on all the time,it was part of my foundation,of who I am/was.

I have had my heart broken into tiny little pieces. When I heard that my mom and dad were divorcing,I was shocked. I got angry and I still am but with the Lord's help managing. I never thought my parents would not be together. I am 35 years old and just always thought they would be there. And when I heard about all that was going on I felt my foundation start shaking.

After a while my dad stopped talking to me. He believed something that were told about me that I did to him that was completely and absolutely false. When I was able to ,after a few months, try to talk to him about it he refused to hear me. He knows me and knows I would never do anything to hurt him and I definatly wouldn't lie. I take my walk with Jesus serious and strive daily to be the person he wants me to be. And a liar isn't that!

When he stopped talking to me completely part of my foundation fell and washed away. I feel for anyone that has lost their father,but to have to go through the pain of losing a father that is still on earth is just rediculous. But that is what I have been doing,my dad is still living but he is gone. He is dating another woman and has turned his back on his family. What I thought was right has been thrown down and kicked. I know it's wrong to live that way, to commit adultery. The Lord plainly says that's wrong it's a sin! It's in the commandments ,that's how bad it is and how much he wanted us to refrain from doing it.

To take a marriage that was once stronge and toss it to the side like it never mattered,I just can't wrap my brain around that. We are moving along each day but with a pain in our hearts. And a grief that lingers.

The Lord is our strength and I am so thankful I have my Heavenly Father to turn to. He has held me up and he has held me in his arms while I cried. When I fell to my knees because I had no more strength,he sat beside me with his arms around me and I cried in his arms. Through my pain of loss ,I have felt a love from the Lord that I never have before. I think when you get so down that you just can't go on that's when you can truly see how powerful and how wonderful Jesus really is.

2009 started off wonderful. My sons were saved and filled with the Holy Ghost and baptised in Jesus name. My husband recieved the gift of the Holy Ghost. It was so wonderful and I was so happy.

Then it was like a blanket of doom and gloom was laid over us. My mom had a breakdown and was in the hospital for a while. My husband was laid off for almost a year and has just gotten back to work in the past month. Then I find out why my mom had the breakdown and almost most lost myself. We went through a lot of financial problems,things like our suv breaking down 3 or 4 times. New tires and breaks and thing needing to be put on it. I could on and on believe me I could but there's no point to. I'm not trying to have a pitty Tammy party here.I'm simply trying to put a picture of 09 in your head so you can see how great and mighty Jesus is!

No my parents are not back together. I am praying for them both and if it's God's will they will be,if my dad has turned his heart off to God then it won't happen. My biggest fear is that something will happen to him now and he will go to Hell for the sins he is committing. It breaks my heart the thought of a once Godly man being so lost.

We are strong people and we will get through this,the sun is peaking through and the days are getting brighter. I don't know what the future holds,I don't know what will happen to my dad. But I do know that Jesus helped us through all this and is still carrying us through.

If you are going through something in your life that is shaking your foundation and you need someone to pray with you or for you. I will, just send me an email or comment and I will pray for you. God loves you all.

God Bless,
Happy Homemaking

Why I haven't been blogging

2010-02-23T08:57:00.000-05:00

I really do love to blog. I have many things that I enjoy blogging about,God,modest womanhood,my family,cooking and baking,cleaning,ect. But I have not blogged in a few week or maybe even a month or two. Some may have been wondering what happened to me.

My parents are in the midst of a divorce. It has been very hard on me. I have tried to keep my chin up and not let the sadness and anger get to me but I am only human. I am the oldest and a lot of the pressure has been put on my shoulders to make sure my mom is ok. Not that I needed that I would have done it anyway.

My dad was a preacher as many of you know. He has become someone I do no know and would rather no know. He has slid into a sinful world where he is nothing like what he use to be.

So many things have come up since the beginning of all this. It has been and still is very difficult. I have seeked advise and counceling from my pastor and he has helped me so much. That with prayer I am finding strength.

I never thought that at the age of 35 that my parents divorcing would be so devastating to me but it has been. I have cried so many times,I have felt betrayed and anger so much anger. I would lash out for nothing and then just start crying. This whole ordeal is far from over so if you would please keep me and my family in your prayers.

It is my intention to get back to blogging as soon as I can.

Until then God Bless.

Happy Homemaking

Take a Look at the rooms your guest see when they visit

2010-01-13T10:27:00.000-05:00

Do a little project with me. Go to each room that your guest see when they visit you. It could be the living room,kitchen,bathroom,each home will be different so each list will be equally different. Once you get your list made,grab your camera and take pictures of each room starting as you first walk into the room(s).

Once you get the pictures taken set down to your computer and upload them and take a good long look at them. You will see your home as your guests see it. Do you like what you see,is there clutter that you never really noticed? Do the walls need dusted or washed? A pictures says a 1000 words. Get out some paper and make a list of the things you see that need your attention. And incorperate those things into your cleaning this week or next.

The vital rooms in my opinion are the rooms that are visable to all. These are the rooms that people see when they enter your home and/or visit you at your home. This is also the first impression you will make to others. Are you a good homekeeper,organized and clean or are you a clutter bug. Of course you want the rest of your home to be equally as clean and organized but always make sure that your rooms that guests are in when visiting your home are 1.clean 2 clutter free 3 organized 4 decorated nicely to your taste 5 smells nice.

Did you know that dust carries odors? The thought of that curls me skin I can't stand it. I make a note to dust the trip and doors in my home all of it. The tops as well because dust will set there,yuck! I dust the outlets and light switches as well. Just a tip you might find interesting : )

It takes time to get your home the way you want it. Make sure you take the time to keep it that way. You will feel so great about your home and what it says about you. Others will love coming to your home because of the atmosphere you have developed there and of course your hospitality.

Happy Homemaking

MYO: Laundry Detergent

2010-01-12T13:10:00.000-05:00

I know there are many versions for this but I wanted to share mine. So here goes...

What you will need....

1 five gallon bucket with lid

2 Cups borax

2 Cups washing soda

1/2 Cup baking soda

1/2 gallon white vinegar

1 bar of soap

grate your soap into a medium sized pan (I use the 6 to 8 qrt size),cover the soap with water and place on stove and melt over medium heat. Stir constantly to avoid it overflowing and making a big mess.

Once it is fully melted,add the borax and stir until completely dissolved (add water as needed),then add the washing soda and baking soda again stir until dissolved.

To the bucket add your vinegar and 4 C of hot water. Add your soap mixture to the bucket,it will fizz a bit adding it to the vinegar and water because of the baking soda. Stir and stir some more to make sure it's all well blended. Then fill the bucket up with hot water. Add the lid and wait 24 hours for it to set.

1/2 cup per load.

I use baking soda and vinegar in my recipe because of the boosting power they provide. Vinegar kills germs and odors and is a natural stain fighter. Baking soda is a detergent booster making my recipe work harder and your clothes to come out very clean.

Happy Homemaking

Menu Planning Monday

2010-01-11T12:25:00.000-05:00

I haven't posted a menu in a while. Well I haven't been blogging much lately. I have so much going on in my personal life that I set blogging aside for the most part. Maybe one day I will share with you all what I have been dealing with.

Monday - Mock chef boy r dee beef macaroni,rolls,tossed salad

Tuesday - Spaghetti,rollls,tossed salad

Wednesday - Chicken nuggets,mac & cheese,green beans

Thursday - Oven fried chicken breast ( I have been told it tastes like Bk's chicken breast,LOL),mash potatoes,gravy,buttered corn

Friday - Hearty chili,corn bread

Saturday - Wrestling (2 days) Braxton - Breakfast for dinner-pancakes and sausage

Sunday - Days 2 of wrestling meet Braxton - beans n franks,mac & cheese,fried potatoes

Note :when I do not mention a fruit or vegetable on a given day it doesn't mean I do not set out vegetables or fruit or both. I usually set out what is left over as well as fresh fruits and cut up vegetables. Or we may have apple sauce or a can fruit (canned in juice of course and sugar free)

Happy Homemaking

Managing my home like......

2010-01-07T17:29:00.001-05:00

When I had my own cleaning business,I knew what each of my clients wanted. When the day that I was to clean their home came, I had a plan of attack that was just for that home based on what the clients wishes were.

It's much like that for my own home. I know what we as a family need and I know how my husband I like our home to look and feel. That's where I start. It's almost like I'm my own client. LOL I run my home like I did my business. I know where to start what to do and when to do it. Having a take charge attitude like this really helps me keep things up the way we like them. Now I don't want to put out the attitude like we never have a messy home because that would not be true. We have 3 children and a dog in the home so you know we have our share of messes.

I get up in the mornings and I know what must be done that day. I know I only have so many hours to work and I start much like I did when cleaning professionally. I start and I don't stop until I'm finished.

Yes when anyone starts a new schedule it's daunting to them and takes a bit more time than they are use to. But I assure you that if you keep doing it,it takes less and less of your time. It becomes more of a habit and can be done rather quickly.

Personally I love my home being clean and smelling good. There's something in knowing that when someone comes to my door,my home is inviting to them. It's free of clutter,because I do clutter runs on a regular basis,and I don't feel a panic when I hear a knock on the door. I don't spend all my time cleaning, I have an alloted amount of time a day that I spend on cleaning and no more. It's taken me a bit of time to get my cleaning down like that only because my list is extensive,but remember I use to clean professionally and that carried over a bit in my own personal cleaning.

Don't give up. Keep pushing yourself and you will get there.

Happy Homemaking

At my house

2009-12-29T11:29:00.002-05:00

The above picture is of our Siberian Husky KiKi I took during the blizzard,she loves the snow

I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas. Did you over do it this year eating to many cookies,cakes and pies. LOL That's a yummy part of the Christmas season. : )

We have been dealing one after another snow and ice and cold. It has been a doozy of a winter already. If the first week of winter is to be a sign to the rest of the winter it's going to be a bad one.

Today I am trying to get the house in order again. I made lists for the kids and they are busy working to get their chores completed. I have my list ready and have been working and marking off as I go. We have the tree down and just need to finish putting the decorations down and put them away. I am going to have John help me rearrange our living room. One of the side effect of my disability I can't do any moving or lifting of well much of anything,it's frustrating but that's the hand I have been dealt.

I am going to make cheese burgers with all the fixings for lunch today and make steak hoggies for dinner. The boys are looking forward to eating today. LOL Just like males huh,they do best with a full tummy.

Well I am now out of time,God Bless.

Happy Homemaking

Merry Christmas Everyone

2009-12-25T06:42:00.001-05:00

Jesus is the reason for the season!

2009-12-24T10:41:00.000-05:00

1And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be taxed. 2(And this taxing was first made when Cyrenius was governor of Syria.) 3And all went to be taxed, every one into his own city. 4And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:) 5To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife, being great with child. 6And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered. 7And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn. 8And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. 9And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid. 10And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. 11For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord. 12And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger. 13And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying, 14Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men. 15And it came to pass, as the angels were gone away from them into heaven, the shepherds said one to another, Let us now go even unto Bethlehem, and see this thing which is come to pass, which the Lord hath made known unto us. 16And they came with haste, and found Mary, and Joseph, and the babe lying in a manger. 17And when they had seen it, they made known abroad the saying which was told them concerning this child. 18And all they that heard it wondered at those things which were told them by the shepherds. 19But Mary kept all these things, and pondered them in her heart. 20And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things that they had heard and seen, as it was told unto them. 21And when eight days were accomplished for the circumcising of the child, his name was called JESUS, which was so named of the angel before he was conceived in the womb. 22And when the days of her purification according to the law of Moses were accomplished, they brought him to Jerusalem, to present him to the Lord;

Happy Homemaking

2009-12-21T10:44:00.003-05:00

We currently have no internet connection so I am updating by text message. Happy Homemaking

2009-12-21T10:44:00.001-05:00

We currently have no internet connection so I am updating by text message. Happy Homemaking

2009-12-21T10:41:00.001-05:00

We are still surrounded by a lot of snow. Schools were cancelled today,the main highways and interstate are pretty clear but secondary & back roads are a mess.

2009-12-19T13:37:00.001-05:00

We are having a really bad snow storm here right now. We are in a state of emergency.Our power keeps going off and on. I have pictures and will post them later.

Four Basic Rules of Frugal Living

2009-12-18T13:47:00.000-05:00

I got this off the net once and I can't for the life of me remember where but it's a good list and worth sharing.

There are four basic rules of frugal living:

- Buy things cheap
- Make them last longer
- Use them less
- Turn them into something new

Beginning to live frugally won't exactly be hard, but it will take perserverence and determination.

Try these simple steps to get you started:
Look at Your Expenses .Scrutinize each and every purchase.

Think NEEDS vs WANTS.

Really think if you have to purchase this item.Is there something else you already have that could be substituted? Could the purchase be postponed?Keep track this month of EVERY purchase you make. Make sure you write down those small impulse purchases, such as snacks, drinks, magazines, and so on. They do add up!

CREDIT CARDS:

Quit using them

Except for extreme emergencies

You have to decide what these are for you. Maybe close all but one or two. You can close the account with a balance due.This keeps you from charging more, though you still have to keep paying the debt.

BUDGET:

Make one.

Sit down and figure how much you bring in each month, or year and divide by 12. This is what you have to save/spend each month.

Figure out what expenses you can not eliminate (rent or mortgage, electricity,
phone, food for example) and start eliminating the others.

Do you need cable, movies out every week, meals out every week, so many extracurricular activies for the kids? Start eliminating and cutting out or cutting down on those and use the extra money to pay off the debt. Really look at your grocery budget. This is almost always a place where improvement can be made. Shop the sales.

Make a Plan:
Figure out exactly how much you owe. Start paying the debts with the largest interest rate first, putting all extra money to those first, while making the minimum payments on the others.When the highest interest rate debt is eliminated put that money to the next highest interest rate debt. Most importantly is to keep in touch with your debtors with any payment problems you have. They would rather hear from you than assume you are skipping out on paying them altogether.

PLAN AHEAD.
Shop at thrift stores for next year's needs, stockpile things you always use, find
pantry space for good deals, think ahead for Christmas, etc.

Set a Monthly Goal:

How much money would you like to save this month?
How much do you NEED to save in order to start paying down those bills?
Review your goals with your spouse, and/or family members, to help get their support in reaching that goal.
Discuss with them the types of things that you can alter during the month to help you reach your goals.

Research/Learn:

Visit your local library and read every book, magazine, and newspaper articles you can
find about saving money, or do a search on the Web.

If you feel like you just have to buy something, buy these books -The Tightwad Gazette
books (a 3-book set) by Amy Dacyczyn, and Your Money or Your Life, by Joe Dominguez
and Vicki Robbins.

You can likely find them at the library, but for the long haul, I have found it helpful to
read and re-read them.

It is well worth the money, and you will spend countless hours reading helpful and fun
tips on living a frugal lifestyle.

The Envelope Budgeting SystemThis simple to use system is based on the Premise that all of your income gets allocated to one of three different budget categories.

1. Fixed ExpensesAre those which you have on a regular basis such as tithes, utilities, child care, mortgage, rent, credit, insurance and taxes, etc. These are considered fixed because you generally receive a bill for themand/or they are constant. The portion of your income that is designated to pay these expenses shouldbe put into your checking account each month.This is because you will most likely write checks to make these payments, and these funds will go in and out of your checking account quickly.

2. Savings Is the portion of your income that you should save each month for emergencies, short-term, long-term goals and retirement. These funds should be put directly into the saving and investment accounts that you have selected.

3. Non-fixed expenses Are all of the other things that you spend your money on such as groceries, entertainment, gifts, clothing, etc.

The amount you have available for these expenses is the difference between your net take home pay, fixed expenses and savings. Once you have decided how you want to allot this money, place cash into the various
envelopes.It sounds too good to be true, but it isn't. That's all there is to it-really!

If you have already done these sorts of things, and still don't have enough money to meet
more than the minimum, then you may need to consider more drastic measures, such as
trading down your car, selling something, moving to a less expensive neighborhood, orother.

General Frugal Tips

1) Instead of paying high prices for products that are easy to make, use these recipes to make them yourself: Make Your Own Products

2) Buy at thrift stores. A lot of nice clothes and kids toys can be found at those kinds of stores for a lot less than they would be at department stores. Keep your eye out for sales at your favorite stores too.

3) Buy gifts when you can get them cheap, not just when you need them. They might take up more room in your house, but it's better to get them on sale now, then to pay full price later!

4) Cancel all of your newspaper subscriptions and/or Cable TV.

You can get the news online and just buy the Sunday fliers for the money saving coupons
each week.

5) During the winter, wear sweaters and put sand snakes or small blankets near the doors to keep the cold drafts out. This will stop your heater from constantly being on, which can add up to a lot of money each month. Make sure you have plenty of warm blankets in your house and use them instead of cranking up your heater when you get cold.

6) During the summer, keep a pitcher of cold water in the fridge.You're family will be more likely to drink the cold water than the expensive juices, sodas, ice teas, and so on. Also make your own cool summer treats: posicles, smoothies, and slushies galore! :-)

7) If you use a dishwasher, make sure you fill it up all the way before you run it.
Don't bother wasting extra money for the dry-cycle....just leave the
door open when the dishwasher is done washing.

8) If you have extra Cola that is flat and needs to be thrown out, do not
pour it down the sink!Pour it down the toilet seat instead.
Swish it around with a toilet brush and watch how clean your toilet gets!

9) Recycle your jelly jars, baby food jars and any type of jar you find.
Turn them into mini-planters for growing herbs.
Many herbs are easy to grow yourself, and it will save you a lot of money from buying those pre-packaged herbs.

10) You can get furniture and other large household items you need much
cheaper by getting them at garage sales.
Any time a neighbor or someone in your town is having a garage sale, browse around and
look for other valuables too.
You might find something old, but still nice, and be able to sell it for much more.

11) Use a battery operated radio, a wind-up clock, and a manual can opener,
instead of paying for the electricity to use those items.
They are also good to have around the house just in case you lose electricity.

12) You really don't need a dryer.
Even if you live in the city, you can hang your clothes on a clothes line outside during the
summer, or even inside your house during the winter!
Not using the dryer at all, or not as frequently, can save quite a few dollars each month
on your electricity bill.

13) Get a bill consolidation loan at your bank.
It will likely save you a lot in interest, and reduce the bills to deal with.

14)Chop up your credit cards.
Maybe keep one, but keep it at your parents' house, or some other unhandy but safe spot.

15) Take your lunch to work/school, and break any latte/coffee shop/vending machine habits.

Think thermos.

Think sitting in the park.

16) Avoid fast food.
Cut down or cut out junk food.
Make your own substitutions if you must. Cookies, cakes, brownies, popcorn.

17) Go through a few recent grocery receipts and use a hi-liter to mark all the non-essential

(read "junk food" and "impulse buy") purchases you've made.
This was a mind-boggling revelation to me!
Those things I felt I just *had* to have when I was standing in the grocery store
just look like money poured down the drain in retrospect.
Terrible nutrition and poor value.
We still slip now and again, but I am more conscious about those sorts of purchases.

18) OAMC - this has saved me tremendous money on my food bills.

19) Grow your own garden.
Even if it's only a salad garden in containers, you can save quite a bit and have healthier
foods too.

20) Popcorn - Cheaper than chips and healthier too.
A great cheap snack.
Carmel corn is super too.

21) Cook with powdered milk:
It's SO easy to mix up a cup of milk when you need it, no one can tell you've used it when
you just cook with it, and it saves.
Not only is it cheaper than fresh milk, but it saves me trips to the stores (where I always
seem to buy more than just milk).

22) Make more things from scratch. I save a lot by making my own homemade
versions of many things - hot cocoa mix, fudgsicles, pancake syrup, choc syrup, salsa,
dried onion soup mix, etc. Many more things.

Happy Homemaking

Thursday at my house

2009-12-17T08:21:00.000-05:00

The above picture was taken by John's brother and his wife while on vacation on year. Though I don't remember what city they were in,I thought this was such a neat picture. I wonder if we would get a free meal if we went to that resturuant,maybe if we showed our ID to prove we were Johnny and Tammy. LOL

Life has been busy around our house,as it is for many of you I would suspect. I have had so much going on that I feel like my mind is going 100 miles per hour. I had such great plans to bake and bake and bake and bake this year,sad to say I have bakes nothing. Yes that's right nothing,I have been so busy with the kids things and then church and we have had some family problems to deal with. It's just been a very hard year for us all around and this month has been no different,but God is good and still in control.

We finally got our shopping all finished and all things with the help of my dear husband are wrapped,THANK GOD! I have to say that I'm not a shopper but I hate wrapping even more,LOL. But it's all finished up and I am very happy about that.

Carissa is doing great at the Christain school ACA,her test scores are all awesome. Makes me feel so good to see her excelling. The boys are all doing so well,they are keeping their priorities straight which is a big things nowadays. Jason has seen first hand what can happen when you get careless,a friend of his is going to be a dad at the ripe ole age of 16. So sad!

Brandon had his very first high school varsity wrestling match last night,well he actually had 2 and he won both of them. He did so great! We are so proud of him. He has really dedicated himself to this sport and he loves it. He gives God the glory for all he does and he has been blessed for it.

Well it looks like I am out of time so until next time,God Bless.

Happy Homemaking